Extra flap of skin on the vulva

I HATE THIS. My doctor said I have an extra flap of skin on my vulva, and its really making me upset. I mean, why cant I just be normal?? I was looking forward to having my boyfriend finger me, but now I am wayy too self conscious. He has never fingered before, but he has seen porn, and in porn they never have that stupid extra flap of skin. Its VERY noticable and BIG. I am not going to get an operation, is there anything else I can do to get rid of it? or make it less noticable?

Answer #1

I seriously doubt that he will care…think about it, he’s getting close to “getting some”, you think he’s going to care about an extra flap of skin? It’s not like you have a disease, it’s just skin. Don’t worry about it, there are a lot of women who look different down there and they engage in sexual activities all the time.

Answer #2

you should tell him about it and hope for the best. He would likely be upset if you didn’t tell him and he found out on his own. And if finding out through talking make’s him not want to, then you shouldnt be doin that with him anyways

Answer #3

its on the labia minora

Answer #4

Fact is, as a guy, I believe most guys have NO IDEA what is normal down there! Some woman have more or less skin, or bigger and smaller vulva, I say, who cares? It has NEVER made a difference to me. In fact, as you see in some porn, the like to show more than just a clean slit; they always have some of that hangy down stuff that men don’t know what the hell it is! But anyway, men don’t know the difference. Guys are just struggling to find the clitorous. Just tell them how to find THAT. That’s all they need to know. Hey, he got to third base right? Good enough for me!

Answer #5

i have this problem too but i have not seen the doctor, should I ??

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