How do you know when you have entered the "friendzone"?

haha, well when guy enters the friendzone tht means a girl can openly talk to him about other guys she likes, she cn act well not girly in front of him, be totally laid back with no makeup or her hair wont be done, but then again guys in the friendzone can always lead into loving relationships, it just depends where the two of you take it.

When they make an effort to talk to you

No I think he is talking about when the girl sees him as a friend an nothing more.

I don’t think this is the zone he wants to be in.

when you talk them and they dont judge or they judge but to make you a better person i think

Yes i was talking about the friendzone that Katie is talking about. And no i dont want to be in the zone. been there way too many times before. But i am hoping that this one is different. I really like this girl, and shes honest with me bout everything. But she has a boyfriend. Who doesnt treat her how he should. or how i think he should…. Its kinda sorta complx.

If she has a boyfriend the best thing to do is wait. If she wants to be with you, she’ll break up with him. As far as how he’s treating her is concerned, who thinks that he’s not treating her the way he should. Is that your opinion? She might be happy with how he treats her unless she suggested otherwise and in that case, if she thinks she deserves better she should get out before she gets deeper into the relationship. You just need to continue being a good friend for now

You have entered the friend zone, much worst than the twilight zone, you may be lost there forever.

Its kinda my opinion, and also what she said, Like when they hang out he always sleeps, he has cheated on her before, he doesnt act the same around her when hes with friends, he didnt even get her flowers today.

Well then this is a decision that she has to make. If he sleeps instead of talking to her, she should see that as a red flag. Maybe he’s comfortable around her enough to sleep. She has to decide when she has had enough. She has to decide that she deserves better. Unfortunately as friends that’s all we can do.. Let them make their own minds up.. but always be open to talk to her and let her know you care what happens to her

Always do, like she knows i dont like how she is treated by him. And she knows how i feel about everything. Im a very honest person, So I have told her everything. So…. But she knows i care, and i told her what ever makes her happy will work for me. Even tho thats not entirly true….

I think question you mean to ask is “How do i get OUT of the friend-zone?” This depends on a couple things. Numero uno…She has to find you somewhat attractive for this to work; Be there for her. Agree with her when she says he doesn’t treat her right. Make her feel good about herself and try your best to always put her in a good mood. NEVER EVER make her feel guilty for putting you in this position, and if you have in the past apologize ASAP, then immediately change the subject to something more happy. Do this for awhile..be supportive and make her feel good…THEN disappear. Not completely or in a d!ckish way but just make yourself unavailable. She will start to feel a loss of what she is missing when she is with you. Let her call you. Then go from there. Good luck man…and if it doesnt work then its prob not meant to be. Theres nothing wrong with having a friend. Im guessing a couple females will be all over me for telling you this…but it works.

Well I have done everything you have said. Except for disppearing which Idk if I can. I mean I get up at 6:30 every day so I can talk to her before she goes to sleep. Even if I had just fallen asleep. Idk tonight she said something along the lines of she likes me more than she should cause she has a bf. If you want me to I can post exactly what she said to me on here well mostly lol. But yeah if you wanna know thy let me know.

when the girl talks openly about relationships and the guy gets jealous because the girl is only talking about other guys when he wants it to just be about him and her

when the girl talks openly about relationships and the guy gets jealous because the girl is only talking about other guys when he wants it to just be about him and her

relationships look different to people on the outside if she loves this guy then you cant do anything about it. if you are her friend just let her be.

Okay…The friend’s zone is nothing to be afraid of David! This is when either you or your friend does not see a “relationship” or “boy/girlfriend” when they think of you. It means that either you or her have labeled the other a FRIEND and yes, though Katie is correct, a relationship of love can bloom, there is that chance where you start to look at them as just that…FRIENDS and nothing more; there’s no attraction, no mystery or excitement and you know everything about each other but hey these are the foundations of GREAT marriages as well so it could swing both ways!!

Good luck…

Love is a strange thing David! It hurts and it can also fill you up with so much JOY!!

But if you really like this girl you will be there for her, give her honest advice and respect that she’s with the boy “she wants” to be with…People are different ~ some people can handle seeing there dream girl with other people but others can’t and break the friendship…

Decide which one you are and stick with it because Love begins with great friendship and it is the best foundation for any relationship!

good luck :D