Don't know what to do

you are kidding right? you said you are 36? with 3 children? who exactly is the parent? not you I hope. yeah great way for your kids to grow up thinking this kinda behavior is exceptable…not hardly. grow up. tell the guy you are married with 3 kids, tell your man you have been going behind his back and doing whatever is good for YOU…not your kids…YOU. hope YOU come out of this wonderfully. hopefully, your husband keeps the kids.

Hi! I’m Jess. I’m married also, no kids but I understand where you’re coming from. First of all, you have to consider the fact that this is the first time you will have ever met him. It’s possible you just can’t forget what you think this guy is like on facebook and on the phone, not who he really is. I believe you don’t want to hurt your husband but that is a guaranteed outcome of this situation! How are you going to disappear for a week and not tell him where you are? Are you going to try to lie, or are you going to tell him and end your marriage if the week long fling turns out to be great? You only live once and you’re thinking if I don’t take this chance, I could be missing out. The whole “the grass is greener on the other side” thing. There are a lot of people who spend their whole lives bouncing from one bad relationship to the next looking for someone they could love and have a family with. Finding that even one time is a miracle in itself. If you trust this guy and you really think you love him and he loves you, tell him how you feel. Tell him you have feelings for him that you can’t shake but you are just really confused and maybe spending a week together right now isn’t such a good idea. You have a lot more to lose here than he does and if he doesn’t understand, maybe it isn’t meant to be. I hope whatever decision you make is the best for you and your kids.

Put your self in your kids shoes, how do you think they are going to feel when you go see another man who is not their father. My mother did kinda what you are thinking of doing and my little brother still can’t get over it, he is 13 also. Im 20 and I understand why my mother did it but I still haven’t forgiven her for it. If everything you have is good and you love your husband and children do yourself a favor and keep it that way because you will save yourself heartache in the long run.