Should I live with my boyfriend or not?

Do you think he would be with you for 10 mos. if he didnt like you?

Statistics show that most people who living together usually don’t ever marry, or the marriage generally ends in divorce. They anticipate that things will change after they are married. Some people believe that ultimately being married will all of a sudden make life seem perfect and the other person will change. The reality for most is that it does not happen. Many men who living together never ending up marrying because many men simply do not feel the need to. If you look at it from a man’s perspective, he is basically getting everything (and probably more than) a wife would give him without marriage, so why should he even bother? There is a comfort zone mostly for men who live with women they are not married to. There is no legal commitment. He can leave whenever he wants with much less guilty feelings than if it was his wife. Women are most likely to want to marry as she knows in her subconscious mind of the fear that he may pick up his bags and leave at any time without too much emotional hassle.

This may sound brutal to some women, but there is a difference on how live-in girlfriends and wives are looked at by men. A man is much less likely to leave his wife than he is to leave his girlfriend. Men do leave their wives of course, but for the most part, men are much more likely to leave their girlfriends more easily and without guilt.

The best solution is to not living together with someone if you are looking for a possible marriage partner. This will benefit women more than men, but it helps the marriage overall for both partners.

It’s great that he makes you feel good, but living together is a huge step. If you are interested in the possibitlity of marriage, the divorce rate for couples who lived together before marriage is higher than that of couples who didn’t live together. That is definetly a factor to consider.

i think he like me …i feell he like me