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Do you believe in second chances?

Me and my boyfriend split up bout 10 months ago I still liked him for about 9 months but I’ve started to move on and enjoy just being frinds we only went out for 2 weeks but now we were just messing about and he said to my friend he still likes me I think I still like him a bit but he dumpedme last time but now I found out it was because of a personal problem and he wanted to be alone but then he went out with someone else 2 weeks later, the problem is he’s gota girlfriends and 2 days ago he said he’d dump her for me but he hasnt I think its because I havent given him a straight answer I dont want to get hurt again but he said he wouldnt is he capable of change I dont know weather to give him a second chance Help meee please

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Answer #1

The thing that hangs on me is you only dated for 2 weeks. He didnt even give the relationship a chance. Then 2 weeks after that he gets himself a new girlfriend? Guess that showed how much he really liked you…Personally, I wouldnt go down that road again, but its your heart!

Answer #2

If he dumped you to be on his own he wouldnt have gone out with someone else so in my opinion that was rubbish. Dont trust him right away, if he wants you he will do everything he can to get you again. dont make it easy for him, he dumped you once already, dont make it so easy to get you back.

Answer #3

my fiance and I were not together for 5 years and we got back together 8 months ago. we are more mature this time and are trying to work out the problems we had before one by one. the kids are happy so yeh it can happen. also one of my dear friends and her hubby were not together for 5 years also and haave been together for the second time for 12 years..

Answer #4

not really coz there will be doubt & fear that the same thing will or might happen again.most of the times paranoid.not focusing on the love anymore but on proving yourself to him/her that you are a changed man/woman.

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