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What has changed about us?

theres this guy that I was on and off with for like 1 year and a half.and like when we were together for the first time we were wonderful and nothing could break us up.! we though it was love.THEN.he had asked me about sex and we hungout one day and it was random because we didn’t plan it and it kinda just happened and after that everything got all screwed up for a couple months.! and then it became okay well at least I thought it was but he was flirting with this other girl in his class for mad long and I didn’t know about it.and then she got him to fall for her and he broke up with me.and now like whenever we talk as like close friends we get along so good at we start talking about us getting back together and then we start to work on it we end up arguing.so its like now whenever we are together we can’t get along at all but whenever we talk about sex or we’re friends we are so close and love eachother.I don’t understand this whats happened to us? I want to be with him but now he doesn’t want to get back with me because he thinks that we are only ever going to argue?

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Answer #1

You can choose to believe this or not, but what changed between you, and him was when you brought sex into the relationship. You are too young to understand how things work with teen boys, You even said that when you talk about sex or your friends, your close, that should tell you something right there. Think about it. If he ever dumps this other girl, and wants to come back to you, it;ll only be for sex, not because he likes you.

13 year olds don’t understand that in order for sex to be a good thing, you need two people who are mature enough to really love and trust each other. When you don’t have that, sex is bad and leaves the girl feeling like she’s been used.

Answer #2

I know how it feels I’ve been through it, he’s a selfish guy and anyone that selfish doesn’t deserve to have you in their life, I know he love him but look into the fact that he has already moved on with the very same girl he was messing around with when he was with u , I know you probably dont want to hear this but its the truth, let no guy treat you like your ‘sex on call’ , he makes up excuses talking about all you 2 will ever do and thats argue, he’s just looking at a way he doesn’t have to deal with you but get what he wants from up and it wud be stupid to give him the upper hand and give in

Answer #3

lol, his other girlfriend wouldn’t put out. Sorry but probably true

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