Change for better

Im like a bad boy turn good. But its sucks.. I want to clean up my acts but itz freaking hard to change.. What should I do?

Answer #1

bare with my friend. we’ve all had to change. it’s hard. but don’t push yourself to hard too fast. just try to do less bad things bud ;)

Answer #2

I was exactly like this. It comes down to motivation and feedback in a lot of cases. You need to reassure yourself that the changes you make are going to be for the better. Reassurance can come in the form of the feedback you get from those around you, internal feedback, asking yourself certain questions, etc.

Ask youself: Do you want even your friends to think you’re a jerk when you’re not around? What do you get out of being bad? Where is being bad in general going to get you in life? What do the people who you might make feel bad think of you? Are you a try-hard?

I sat down after a while and started thinking about those things and they helped to motivate me in this manner. You just need to remember the benefits of being a good person. You have friends I’m sure and they can give you plenty of support because they want what’s best for you. You have to give yourself the drive to keep on changing and being the best person you can be. Anybody can be bad, not everyone can be good. Test yourself as well, because at the start the change will be a bit of a challenge. Even I thought it “sucked” at first.

Interact with the right people and keep your chin up and the changes you make will last and will make you feel a lot better. I hope that helps :)!

Answer #3

hello.. its good to change 4 the better.. because it will make peoples around you proud of u.. its sure hard to change… but if you really want to change you WILL CHANGE!!! just trust urself and change bcoz you dont want to b bad… and most of all ask urself, look into your heart…change by your heart…it would worth it…

god bless!!

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