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child a mistake?!

ok so my friend’s dad told him he was a mistake! how do I help him? I’ve always been good at telling him things but this is hard!! HELP PLEASE! I dont know what to say to comfort him. heres our convo

him: My dad just told me that I was I mistake!!! Well there’s a loving parent for ya

me: huh? why he tell you that?

him: Cause he was just tellin me “so that I could know” so yah that sucks. We weren’t meant to meet

me: umm WHAT?

ok first off your not a mistake! second if we wernt meant to meet then we wouldnt have now I know your smarter than that K*. your NOT a mistake

him: Well he’s not messin with me, he said that they sued the condom company

me:is he drunk or something?

his father isnt like that so why? please help me

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Answer #1

Even those who are mistakes, a lot of the time they are just as loved. I’m nearly 20 with a baby on the way and I already love him/her more than anything else on this planet, he/she wasn’t planed quite this soon. Mistakes aren’t always a bad thing..

Answer #2

um, well first off, I was also a “mistake” but obviously not a bad one as my parents still kept me.
remind him that his parents still love him and wanted to keep him. He still still alive and well and in their care. all his dad was telling him was how he got conceived, which many kids wonder at some point in their lives.

Answer #3

YOU; IF YOU WERE A MISTAKE THEN IM SO THANKFUL YOU WERE BECAUSE I WOULDNT HAD GOTTEN THE CHANCE TO MEET YOU AND YOU HAVE MADE MY LIFE SO HAPPY, I COULDNT HAD ASKED FOR A BETTER FRIEND. AS OF YOUR FATHER HE WAS THE MISTAKE FOR GETTING BLESSED WITH YOU. YOUR FRIEND; WOW I NEVER LOOKED AT IT THAT WAY THANKS FOR BEING A GOOD FRIEND

Answer #4

Did he answer about being drunk? I really doubt anyone can actually sue a condom company, condoms aren’t 100% which means it’s ‘use at your own risk’ so I sounds like he has some issues going on. Just comfort him and let him get his feelings out.

Answer #5

thank you all. I doubt he sued him to. this is all over FB so blah blah but I don’t know I think he is looking for attention. :[ its sad I know. but whatever im trying.

Answer #6

Don’t worry, I was a mistake as well. It was hard but I go over it

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