How can I get over this broken heart?

My boyfriend (well ex now) of one month ( which is the longest relationship I have ever had) dumped me two days ago right on our anniversary and I also found out that I was the other woman, which is also very sad. I have never felt sad over a guy cause I have dated plenty but he like tore my heart out and put it in a blender and you know the rest. Well how can I feel happy again cause I tried the whole make out with another guy thing which only made me sadder so I really want tips or something.

Answer #1

I know this is hard and everything. But the best thing to do is to just move on an show him it doesn’t hurt you because what some guys like this like is to see how they still have their ex’s attached an if they really want to they can get them back when ever they want. an you dont want that you really dont .. Take it from someone who has been screwed around with alot, an always ended up with a broken heart. You dont wanna be played by a guy. So even if its hard to do show him that its not bugging you. And find a guy who will treat you right because thats what you deserve.

i hope this helps

love always megan

Answer #2

You need to realise that this guy is a dog and screwed you around. Now its time to move on…its going to take some time seeing as tho it was your longest relationship. Just keep yourself busy, go out with friends, even tho the making out with another guy thing didnt work doesnt mean its not going to…its just cos you had no feelings for that guy. When you meet someone else eventually and start to like them and then make out, you will feel more for him becos there are actual feelings there. Just give yourself some time thats all you need.

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