Broken Heart

I recently got of a relationship with a boy I’ve been with for 1 year. We were really in love with each other and we never been unfaithful to each other.But we were going through some problems and I broke up with him. He has broken up with me twice before and I took him back because people make mistakes. I wrote a letter to him because I made a mistake and wanted him back. I told him I love him and wish that he would take me back. But he said no. I asked why and he said it was because he was in love with someone else. He didn’t cheat. But he said they were talking as friends since November of 2007 and we brokeup on April 2008. After that I broke down and cried cause I was so hurt. We talked on the phone til 12:00 in the morning having a good conversation. I asked him do he still love me he said yeah. Its just that I care about two people, but I care about one more than the other. He said if it is meant for us to be we would one day get back with each other. Which I hope that day will come. So we are bestfriends. People at my highschool can’t believe that we were bestfriends with each other since he was in love with someone else. It’s so hard to let go. I love him still deep in my heart. I wish I could find a way to make him fall in love with me all over again. I want him and only him. When we talked on the phone about him being in love. I changed the subject to all the good times we had. But I honestly need help in to making someone fall in love with me all over again. Can someone please help me???

Answer #1

I don’t think you can make him fall in love with you all over again. What you should do is take a break from him. You shouldn’t hang out or talk if it can be avoided, because you need to move on. Maybe when you both have time away from eachother you will see that a) you were meant for eachother and that you should get back together or that b) it was better for you two to break up and meet new people. I went through a situation where a guy I dated told me he wanted to be best friends and that we might get back together once he got over what he was dealing with. I was upset and didn’t know what to do, but after having time away from him I realized that we weren’t a good couple, and that he said those things only because he didn’t want to hurt me. He cared about me, but didn’t want to be with me, or be friends with me. Your situation could be the same. Give him space and give it time. If its meant to be, its meant to be.

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