Bringing Exyback?

Yesterday, I met up with an ex… after not seeing him for 4+ months. We hung out for around four hours, and in that time, we were… Close. Like we used to be.

And a while before we said bye, he said “it doesnt mean anything”. He meant that the day didn’t mean much to him. Well, that’s how I interpreted it.

I was… shocked. Actually, I was really confused. I got pissed at him, and he realised. He asked me what the matter was, and I told him that I wasn’t just someone he could ask to hang out with, and get close to anytime. That I actually minded about what people did to me.

He said he liked me, but didn’t want either of us hurt again. I was thinking that maybe there could’ve been a ‘second chance’, Maybe we could work things out.

He cheated on me before. Which was why I broke up with him the last time. After me, he had several girlfriends. After him, I stayed single all along.

I haven’t spoken to a single soul about this, and I feel like I might fall into serious depression soon.

So… yeah. Some people think getting back with an ex is crazy, but… I’m not sure.

I think… I really like him. I’m not sure about how he feels now… It’s only been a day, but you never know about guys. Gah. What should I do?

-And btw, yes. The title is from one of ‘thewinekone’’s videos. On Youtube. :P

Answer #1

I too have been where you are, but you are only 13 yrs old…way too young to be obsessing over an ex boyfriend. Theres a reason why hes your ex. You need to keep reminding yourself why. He cheated on you, isnt that enough for you to not wanna take him back? Has he told you he misses you, and wants you back? Is he busting down your door, begging for you to take him back? Your just not catching on. You hung out with him 1 time in over 4 months, and right away you assume he wants you. My ex did the very same thing., but he had a girlfriend. He played with my head for 2 1/2 yrs. Your ex has flat out told you> “it doesnt mean anything”. What he meant was, just because we hung out, doesnt mean we are getting back together! You have to stop convincing yourself that there is still something between you two, because you are only driving yourself more crazy. You need to accept the fact that its over, and get on with your life.

The word “past” means that something is no more. It is no longer in existence. It is not real, except in how you imagine it. Therefore, something that does not exist, should not have a negative influence on you. If it does, you have hooked yourself into the past, and you feed it your life-energy. We suggest that you redirect this energy to create a new you. That hook is keeping you there, and is keeping you from your future that is charging at you right now.

Answer #2

well your not gonna like this but Iv been there with my x. We went out literally like 15 times. She broke my heart every time. I always thought that if we went out I could make it work. The thing was that after the 7th time she had doughts and so did I. So we decided to be “friends and she could talk to me about every seceret and every bad thing in her life I was like her shrink. I no she still loves me but w cant go out. Now I cant stand to talk 2 her.

It is great to stay friends wit your x but u need to leave it at friends. Its hurts worse after goin out and gettin hurt a twice. And the pain gets worse every time u go out with him.

Ok if u really need help with this u can write me.

Answer #3

He cheated, so you shouldn’t associate with him AT ALL.

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