Boyfriend versus older brother

I need help! I need to know a way that I can prove to my older bros that my boyfriend is a good guy… They just think he is some creep trying to get in my pants… I love him a lot and we are gettin married in a few years and I dont want them to hate him… But they havnt met him yet. He is like a few years older then me and they really hate that. What do I say??? what do I do to get them to like him??? Help me please!!!

Answer #1

Well your brother is shallow because he has already judged your boyfriend on pure hearsay and society. He is not going to listen to anything you say because he has already made up his mind about your boyfriend. The only way he would be able to change his mind is if your boyfriend did it himself or after a long period of time.

Answer #2

your brother is just probably over protective of you. mine are of me. hes not going to like any guy you are with because your his little sister. every guy in his mind is bad for you. you just have to ignore everyone else and focus on yours and your boyfriends relationship. You should have you boyfriend hang out with your family so your brother can realize that your boyfriend is a good guy and isnt a creep like he thinks.

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