boyfriend's mama hates me without cause?

my “boyfriend” (we arent dating because of his mom…) is 19 he lives with his mom,sister,step dad, and step sister. he goes to visit his dad and step mom every weekend. He acts like we are dating and tells me he likes me but that he cant date me. He was walking with me at one of our last home football games and his mom flipped out and started yelling at him to stay away from me. Im 16. him and i dated my freshman year for 6 months but we broke up. im now a junior and he is a senior. His mom is perfectly fine with his sister being around me(shes 11) and his step father amd his dad both like me. but his mother glares at me everytime I see her. I dont know what to do because she blows him off everytime he tries to say something about it. she wont let him do anything that might involve me and now im manageing the wrestling team at school and he is team captain so we are forced to talk… she is deffinately not pleased. shes always talking about how much she loves his exgf which happened to be one of my best for like 4 years(then we got into a huge fight) anyways…. I dont know how to make his mom like me if he wont stick up for me everyone else does and she still hates me. I guess he thinks if her ex husband her current husband and her daughter cant make her like how does he have a chance? What do Ido? I need advice…. :( I have been best friends with him for 5 years and i have liked him since the day we met… I honestly think I love him…

Answer #1

Well honey I didn’t even read the whole thing. He is 19 years old, which means an adult, his mother can’t stop you from seeing each other. Have you just tried askin his mother “what’s the deal”

Answer #2

My sympaties, I’ve had my difficult share of mothers. As soon as a mother sees you are a keeper, she’ll get difficult. Remember it is her “little boy”. The best thing that you can do is to be nice to her at all times, even suck up a bit. I know that is extremely hard, especially if someone is trying to stab out your eyes in the process, but remember it is his mother. Eventually it’ll get better. My boyfriends mother only started warming up to me after we have already been dating about 6 years. lol. and that is after a lot of sucking up.

Answer #3

His mother is very protective and is maybe scared to see her ‘little boy’ growing up.You know the way Dads are so protective of their daughters.Well,give her the utmost respect and be nice to her all the time and maybe you might win her over,like look for common interests.And show her how devoted you are to her son and how much you love him and she might relax.

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