Boyfriend and Weed

Me and my boyfriend started going out a little more than a month ago. Last week he told me that he smokes weed. I’m a christian and I’m against drinking and drugs. He also knows I don’t like what he does. I’m not sure what to do considering I’m in love with him. But he told me that he doesn’t think he’s gonna stop. I don’t know what to do..

Answer #1

He hasn’t just started, He’s being doing this for 2 or so years.

Answer #2

well the important thing is to not force your religion onto him instead talk to him about how its making you feel, and focus on telling him the dangers of drugs. eg lower life expectancy, higher risk or lung cancer, and it can also affect his fertility

Answer #3

ok dont count weed as a drug. not like it hurts u. I dont do it but my whole familia does. and its not a big deal. it helps calm alota people calm down. hense some states are making it legal

Answer #4

it might help calm people down but its still danggerouse it does contribute to cancer it does lower your life expectancy it does prematurely age you and it will affect your fertility among many other things just because its a plant doesnt make it safe berries come from a plant, and some of them will kill you and yes its a drug, it can also become addictive, because anything can be addictive

Answer #5

JUST TALK TO YOUR BOYFRIEND ABOUT HOW YOU ARE FEELING ..AND MOST LIKELY HE WILL STOP FOR YOU ..AND IT’S BETTER YOU HAVE THIS TALK IN THE EARL BECAUSE WEED IS ADDICTIVE AND SINCE HE’S JUST STARTING IT WILL BE EASIER FOR HIM TO QUIT :)

Answer #6

if you really like him, talk to him about it the way I see it is

  1. you ask him, he doesnt quit, you have to live w/ it
  2. you ask him, he doesnt quit, you break up w/ him (smarter option)
  3. you dont ask him, your un happy
  4. you do ask him, he does quit, your BOTH happy

if he cant choose btw you and weed, dump his a$$. better to do it now then before you guys go too far

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