What if my crush cares about me more than my boyfriend?

Oh my gosh…Your situation is similar to mine.

I love my current boyfriend a lot. But there’s this guy at work and I’m starting to have this crush on him. He’s so sweet and he always cheers me up whenever I’m feeling down. He just has this cute sense of humor going on. And it’s fun to talk to him. I heard that he likes me, too, but I don’t know if that’s true. My boyfriend used to be like that but I feel as if he doesn’t care anymore (it might be just my mind playing tricks on me). I don’t want to break up to be with my crush because, first of all, I know my boyfriend more than I know my crush. Second of all, my boyfriend and I have been through so much that if I ended our relationship, I would just waste our efforts to becoming such a strong couple. Plus, I’m just being selfish because I haven’t given my boyfriend a chance to share his feelings about all of this.

I think you and I just need to talk to our boyfriends. We should talk to them and tell them how we’re feeling so that we can work things out. And by having these kinds of conversations can create a stronger bond with one another because that’s how my boyfriend and I pulled things through. I guess tomorrow’s gonna be another one of those “talks” with my boyfriend.