so i have a big boy problem

there was this boy last year who liked me but i didnt like him, he was sort of a “loser” at the time and was really annoying which i found a huge turn off but he changed over the summer and since december or so i have liked him on and off we talk quite a fair amount, but now he has moved on from never making out to a bj so he is experienced, he also doesnt talk to me as much as i like which makes me want him more the summer is coming up and school is almost out, my parents say i am not allowed to date but im sure if they met him they would allow it, this summer he can drive.. FINALLY … he said he will pick me up, but he wants action and i want more of a relationship, i tried telling him im more of a relationship person but he doesnt really get it and he says that we can date in the summer.. but planning to date sounds a little sketchy??? so besides the background information here is my main question.. how can i get him back to me?

Answer #1

Do whatever you feel is right. If you want to be with him really bad, than date him. You can face your parents wrath for love. I did. But if it’s not worth it, than he’s not worth it. Hope this helps, sorry I’m kind of vague. Xoxo Hayley

Answer #2

well it really sounds like this boy doesnt really have that mcuh feelings for you, seems more like he just wants some action, esecialy if he is going to set a date for when you can begin. But, obviously, i cant tell you what to do, if you really do want to date him despite that, then take the initiative to talk to him, ask him to hang out, ask him out.

Answer #3

Why do you want him? I can guarentee you, if you give him action, you won’t see around except for more action.

Maybe look at as a lesson…..everybody has a swan inside….if you hadn’t been so critical of him when he was a “loser”, he would have been your guy while he morph’d into that swan….He would have seen you as a deeper person, and not superficial.

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Answer #4

Oh typical boy. Well immature agree with most, it does sound like he only wants action but, if you wanna date him why not? Let’s make him want you more than he wants his new popularity. I’m assuming he’s mister big shot now or feels that way now that you say he’s popular and different, well you play the same game. Just don’t lose your real self whole doing it. Remember boys want what they can’t have. So, basically maybe a lil attitude and confidence might throw him off a bit. Have fun with him, but if in Case he jst wants you for the wrong reason blow him off. A lil torturing won’t hut, atleast not you. Hope this helps :)

Answer #5

Meant to say imma agree with most. Sorry…

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