How can I tell my boyfriend I'm not ready to sleep with him without him getting mad or upset?

Just tell him you’re not ready. If he gets mad or upset, then he’s a douche and you can find a MUCH better guy. If a guy really loves you, he will wait til you’re ready. You shouldn’t sleep with someone just cause you’re afraid he will be upset if you don’t.

he shouldent get mad at you if he loves you

exactly what i was going to write :I gawsh i can not answer anything anymore lol

first ask him if he will get mad if you say no and if he says no then tell him sorry then ask him to just wait a little longer… i agree with her you deserve better if he don’t listen to your feelings on the situation.

mostly guys who just want sex will back off if the girl tell him she is saving herself for marriage and if the guy gets mad he doesn’t get to pleasure himself then he is pushing and using you. there are a lot of people in the world.

you’re 13! that’s insane, you should wait till you are an adult anyway to have sex. would you like to get pregnant at age 13, never get to live your teenage life because of a baby.

Sorry but don’t be so obnoxious, she may be young but if shes ready and has good protection and mature then what can you do. You don’t have to be an adult to have sex, some adult are immature. If a couple are ready, have love and trust then why not?

kust tell him dit down and have a open heart an if he doesnt understand hes not ready to really be with you.. Dont rush it hun

Step up and tell him that you’re not ready to have sex. he should respect you and know your boundaries, but you shouldn’t be afraid to speak up and tell him that this is something you do not want to do.

Ana is right, part of the maturing process is to get to know your own boundaries and learning how to set them. If he’s the friend you believe he is, he’ll understand and respect it. If not, then he’s not the bf you think he is and it’s better you find out sooner then later.

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Only thing I have to add is ur 13 at ur age no guy is really worth being worried over so tell him ur not ready and if he can’t deal with it don’t deal with him. Plus at ur age u need to be focusing on more important things like hanging out with friends and enjoying your teenage years not worrying about what a guy will think if u don’t sleep with him.