What is the perfect amount of kids to have?

Now first I’m not having kids till I’m married but what is the perfect amount of kids to have???

Answer #1

no more than 4 for sure. you will go crazy with more. but only have as many as you can afford. you want to be able to buy them all new brand name clothes at the beginning of the school year don’t you? if you have just one and are in debt or struggling don;t have any more. it only gets harder and ends up putting a strain on every other aspect of life.

Answer #2

I am 24 I have 4 children that are 5, 4, 3, and 2. when I had 2 and even 3 kids life was pretty easy…I wouldn’t suggest bringing in a fourth though, not enough hands to grab them when they run.

Answer #3

I have 2 children, that is enough for me but for others they may want more, some may only want 1 child, some may want none. Depends on your and your partner, what sort of home you have size wise and money.

Answer #4

American Average is 21/2. You have to decide for yourself how many is the perfect amount. Some people it’s 1 others it is 12

Answer #5

I’m 15 too. But if I was to say how many kids is probably good, I would say 3 but def. wait till marraige and until you can afford kids and establish a good place to live and spouse. ~Alanna

Answer #6

Hon, according to your profile you were born in 1992 so that makes you 15. I think you have plenty of time before you need to worry about such things.

Answer #7

kids will tend to get pretty pissed at there sibs alot so after a kid turns 5-6 then the kid wont have much of a prob then u can have another. and u can still have the joy of kids, but with less head aches, and trips 2 the hospital.

Answer #8

hi im glad your not planning on having them at such a young age but nobody can tell you how many kids you or anybody else should have ,its entirely up to you and your partner.have the first then decide for yourself you will definately know if you want more after the first .goodluck

Answer #9

I think two.

Answer #10

none

Answer #11

There is no perfect amount, girlfriend! It’s all on personal preference. How many you wants, how many your spouse will want.

Personally, I am waiting until marriage too, and if that day comes, I want twin girls (ahah) and a boy. So around 3, maybe even 4. It’s all what you want. I’ve even thought about adopting a child who doesn’t have a home.

And I AM SO PROUD OF YOU! MARRIAGE POWER! You should hold your head up high, because people like you aren’t in many! Marriage and kids is the bet way to go, you are ensuring that your kids have a proper home and a future with your wise decision. AWESOME!

Answer #12

I’ve got 3 (I’m 27). I wouldn’t have more than that. They are a handful. I just hope you don’t end up pregnant before you’re ready. Please don’t go down that path of being a teen mom. IT may sound glamorous and the guy may claim to love you forever, but honey- love fades quick when a baby is screaming. I know you’re not saying you’re going to run out and get pregnant, you’re just curious on the amount of kids. 2 is probably the best because with 3 I feel like I’m outnumbered some days.

Answer #13

mosy people know or are in my fam are married with 3 kids

Answer #14

That’s not really an answerable question.

Answer #15

Differnt for others i will be happy with one.

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