Am I being used or are guys just self centered

My boyfriend recently got laid off & I have been handling all of our expenses such as dining out,gas in his car that he doesnt allow me 2 drive & anything else he wants. I quit a job less than a year ago & I was without pay for dam near a month when out was out of work I’ll admit he handled our expenses but barely. He lives with his mother & I live with mines so when we meet up we eat out everyday. During the month I was without I ate home more than I ever have in my life because he never offered like I do & when I asked its like there was a slight attitude.now he has this over baring mother thats always calling,texting,popping up in his room when im there & they made dinner plans during this time period.he takes me 2 mcdonalds buys my food rushes 2 take me home & then takes her out 2 oliver garden. We never go 2 oliver garden,red lobster or anywhere nice unless I pay for it. I starting 2 feel a bad feeling about this situation. I hate his mother because she is self centered now I realize he is the same way.only worried about his self.when I want or need…I get attitude or lies. One day he promised 2 take me & my daughter 2 the aquarium we go his cashed his check then starts complaining his stomach hurts drops us off home & never metioned it again. I treat him to everything including putting money in his pocket but im feeling wanted for another reason…what do you think???am I wrong???