Am I attracted to guys or a lesbian?

okay, so i think i might be a lesbian. i know for a fact i like girls…but i thought i liked guys too. but like when my boyfriend and i are making out, its hot. when he fingers me, its hot. when we cuddle its great. but the thought of returning the favor just…is…kinda a turn off…..and i dont know if i should talk to him about it. and i dont know if i should just suck it up and give him pleasure too. but yea. im not sure if im attrracted to guys or not at all.

Answer #1

You could be bisexual. So you might be attracted to guys a bit, but not as much as you are to girls.

It could also be that you are attracted to guys, but are not ready to do anything sexual with them yet.

Either way, don’t worry about it. Don’t rush yourself. You do not have to label yourself right away or do anything sexual with anyone right away.

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