Am I asking this too soon or whatever?

Okay, so here’s the deal. I met this guy on myspace, I gave him my number so we could text. Well, he called me bunches of times, and wanted to meet up but I wasn’t ready. Well one day I just answered the phone. We finally met up and we hit it off. It was soo fuc*ing scarey cause I was getting feelings right off the bat. Well, we been together now for 2 in a half months. Since june 12th. We said we loved each other and we’re hardly ever apart. Well things are really great until we get to the bedroom. Now, he likes a lot of head, I’m not very good at it and I’ll admit it. I can’t deep throat because of this stupid thing called the gag reflex. So I do tend to force myself and he does it too. But I can’t do it for too long. Also, he wants to bring in another girl. At first it was just I was suppose to eat her out and he takes pictures and we both give him head, okay I agreeed, well it turned into a 3-some and he’s always looking. Should I just do it and get it over with or ask him to wait. I do trust him and he said he’s not a cheater and he’s not going to be mad if we don’t do it, but like all of us, we want to try new things. Listen, I know I’m goofy for loving this man so soon, but you can’t help who you love and I want to do everything I can to please him and make him speak in tongues, and like most of us girls, be the one he’s like WOW ya know . So you nice guys please help me, females you too, because if I knew you and you were prettier than me, I’d most likely be jealous, so I need to know what it is ya’ll do and what you men like. Thanks!