Am I a Nobody? Is it Me or Them??

I have never felt so left out of everything. I have came so far without friends and have Tried so much finding myself some, but when I try to meet them they immediately lose interest and ignore. What REALLY annoys me is when I find people I’d like to get together with, they don’t care to hang out with me, and with people I DON’T want to hang out with (either cause they’re weird or creepy) Want to be with me. Ugh! I feel Boring. . and I am about to give up. 20 years without a real friend or 2 by my side. Every day is the same.. and so unfeeling. Nothing Amazing happens, I don’t like meeting new people much cause it doesn’t seem worth it. They ‘really’ don’t give a hoot about me either. No one I have taken interest in has ever asked me to hang with them. They just don’t seem to care. I try not to be intimidating at all. I’m a nice person and I smile a lot. Plus, I am sick of hanging with men (no offense, they’re just my sisters friends) I just want Girlfriends but they all seem snooty and into themselves. I’m so sick of this life of mine.

I love photography, I’m an artist, and Designer and I am really out there! Do You think that’s boring??!

. .yes , I’ve met people who share the same talents, BUT. . they show no interest either in me whatsoever. Can anyone explain to me why no one seems to show interest in me at all?? Am I a Nobody? A Ghost?

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Answer #1

Hi there! I am 23 and I’m feeling like a ghost in my own hometown. I have lost touch with many of my friends in the country I have studied in and spent most of my adolescence in. Would you like to share more together?

Answer #2

You are deffinetly not a nobody, and should try not so hard to make friends, just go out there and be yourself show people who you realy are. Dont hold back show them what a great, creative person you realy are. You say you like art, that is great I myself love art and I have lots of friends though most of my friends have no interest in art and we do not share that common interest. But I find other interest that we do love, such as snowboarding. Plus if people cant appreciate what kind of person that you are, then its not worth, you will find someone who cares. If not stick with the guys. Personally I like hanging with the boys rather then the girls, there’s not as much drama, girls bring lots of drama. SO keep your head up, God didnt put you on earth for no reason.

Answer #3

I dont know if its you or them.

Dn’t judge a book by its cover… just because they seem snobby doesnt mean you shouldnt try! You may be pleasantly surprised if you give them a decent chance to get to know them in person. Dont give up!

Art is really not a boring subject at all, it stimulates the mind and uses your creative side to the max!

Answer #4

Make something of yourself…be independentand be happy…three key factors of expressing yourself… you’re defintly not a nobody or a ghost..all you need to do is find what makes you your best… trust me on this I know…how…well… currently im in egypt studying arabic…was my choice but I also took on this chalenge becus I wanted to explore who I really was…im only 16 but that doesnt mean that im not capable…at first people back home (UK) thought me and my parents were insane to let on to this…but now that im succeeding in my research and my studies, even haters are bubbling at all times… so when you do yur thing and dont ask anybody for a lot of help then people will want to know more about you…

im not saying you shouldn’t speak to anybody…get to know a variety of types of people then when you know what group you best belong to go on from there..but dont express yourself too m uch…make people want to know whos behind that bubbbly personality and happy and successful person…that way you’ll hopefully find a long time friend…

hope I’ve helped…I beat being a loner and shy by daring to go to new lenghts…so I guess you should try it too…

take care and just funmail if you need more help…xxx

Answer #5

I don’t believe Jesus made nobodies. All you need to do is, get out there and just be yourself. Don’t beat yourself up by getting all the friends you think you’ll have. I know making friends is hard. I know the feeling since it was hard for me to find people to whom I could share my interests with. I tend to like hanging around older people for some reason. Even though I’m 23, I believe hanging around older people is something I feel comfortable with. You might find someone out in the crowd that might become your friend and share similar interests as you. Who knows, that person might be an angel instead of a snob. Yeah, there are snobby people out there but, there are good people out there as well. You just have to get out more in the crowd. I’m sure not every girl your age or so are snobby. I’m sure there are girls who would love to be your friend. You just have to be who you are and don’t be someone you’re not. That doesn’t work out that way. I don’t think art is boring. I find art very interesting and fun. It helps to have a creative mind. It also helps relieve stress and helps to relieve depression as well. You sound like a really nice person and, just don’t beat yourself up. It just takes patience when it comes to making friends. Just give people a chance. Maybe there are people that aren’t social butterflies and are too shy. But, don’t worry, if you get out there more, you’ll find some people to be kind, caring, compassionate, ect. You shouldn’t be hard on yourself. God put you on earth for a reason. Don’t ever give up! You need to utilize what you have in life. Life is too precious. It’s a blessing the Lord created us and that we’re free to choose what we want in life. Hang in there and if you want a friend, you can always funmail me. Or, you can add me. You’ll make friends on this site as well that share your interests.