What can I do to alter my appearance to look like this celebrity?

Be your self, he finds you already attractive! if he didnt then why is he dating you! story here:http://funadvice.com/r/brv5r7hoq

No he hasn’t told me im unattractive but i feel it, ya know :/ and i mean i just want im to like my appearance more, thank you though angel <3.

Thank you, the link doesn’t work though.

i no this may sound weird but i found it that a guy is more into u the less u care.. hahahaha.. when ya start caring a hole lot it freaks em out. so just be urself. and if he likes it which im sure he does then good if not fk em. its easier said then done but dont let him see u stressin over this. u r in control. and its ok to have crushes on other ppl.. just be cool about it and he will see how cool u r and love u even more.

I fancy R Patz but I wouldn’t want my partner to change himself to look like him. He fancies a woman from Doctor Who and it doesn’t bother me, he likes me which is why he is with me which is the same reason your boyfriend is with you. I doubt he would want you to change and even feel like this. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. He has told you he finds you attractive and you need to try and accept that he is telling the truth.

Dont change yourself. It may seem like it would be a good idea to have your boyfriend find you more attractive but it might also turn him away from you. He is dating you because he obviously was attracted to you and if you go trying to change it can possibly change his feelings for you in a negative way. Plus you are stunning the way you are and are completely a natural beauty. Jessica Alba only looks so good because she has tons of money to hire a professional trainer, buy tons of products, and have people edit her photos to give her her look. If he doesnt love you for the way you are including appearance he in all honesty is not worth changing for. Me and my boyfriend have been going through a problem like this and it turns out that he didnt want me trying so hard because it was making myself seem desperate and unattractive. So better to stay yourself and believe your boyfriend when he does say you are attractive! =D i mean do you want to make your boyfriend believe you think he is lying?

stefie i really think you look amazing

Thank you very much Ameena it means alot to me.

Thank you Rose i really will consider this, and yeah your rigth, he is dating me not that pencil fake b!tch! hah, you really ust boosted my confidents :)

Thankyou Holly :)

im glad i can help boost your confidence XD Jessica Alba is definitely pencil like haha

stefie,your gorgeous :)

you don’t have to be someone your not. don’t even try. Boys are just being boys,sometimes we do get infatuated for sometime by celebrities or some ordinary people. BUT! when our GF give us an experience that no other girl can provide,will love her more than anyone else and stay loyal :) and by loyal,I say we get infatuated by someone but in the end I would only choose the one whom gave me an Experience of a life time :)

and oh,There are lots of boys find girls attractive in a different aspects. Could be Humor,Height,jolly,Loving,Caring and so many other qualities that a female has,regardless of her beauty :)

But I’m sure the one your dating is happy for what you are:P to me,Your perfect :D

wish I was the one dating you :3 I would really sing the Song “JUST THE WAY YOU ARE” by bruno mars :) anyways,I dedicate that song for you stefie :)

Gosh that is soo sweet of you, thank you you really ust boosted my confidence alot, i really apreciate it :).

stefie your only 13 why are you even thinking about? just be happy with how you look now and worry about looking like a celebrity later :))

Stefie, please don’t do this :(. For one, you are gorgeous, there’s no need for you to even TRY to look like someone else. I bet as soon as you achieve the look, he will get sick of it and want you back. I was also going through similar like problems with my boyfriend. For an entire year he constantly pointed out girls who looked good, or wish I looked like them etc. It utterly destroyed whatever was left of my self esteem, I can’t even go out anymore without feeling like total crap because I would see girls similar to the ones he constantly pointed out. I’m also battling anorexia once again :/ I was recovering and it put me back again. The entire year of that crap, I refused to change myself one bit, then eventually I folded because I felt so horrible. In the end, he told me he missed the way I looked and the way I was before (attitude-wise, personality-wise). Thing is, I forgot how I was already, he destroyed it and now he is trying endlessly to make it up to me and get me back my lost Janice-y attitude o.o basically, right now I am a total and utter mess. I realize I’m ranting LOL. But what I am telling you is, in the end, whomever you choose to be with, ensure that they love you wholly for you. Sure they could have liked girls different from you before meeting you either in appearance or personality, but now that they are with you, they should love you for you. Really, if they are unable to love and want you to look like yourself, or act like yourself they aren’t worth it. They aren’t loving the whole package, but picking it apart and deciding what they want and what they don’t and that is not love at all. Besides, let’s see Jessica Alba and all those other celebrities without their make-up, airbrushes, photoshop, lipo-suction, plastic surgery, breast augementation, you can barely even find such pictures for most of them, I bet they look like regular girls without those things. So Stefie, you are just perfect the way you are, don’t, please don’t try to change it.

Stefie, please don’t do this :(. For one, you are gorgeous, there’s no need for you to even TRY to look like someone else. I bet as soon as you achieve the look, he will get sick of it and want you back. I was also going through similar like problems with my boyfriend. For an entire year he constantly pointed out girls who looked good, or wish I looked like them etc. It utterly destroyed whatever was left of my self esteem, I can’t even go out anymore without feeling like total crap because I would see girls similar to the ones he constantly pointed out. I’m also battling anorexia once again :/ I was recovering and it put me back again. The entire year of that crap, I refused to change myself one bit, then eventually I folded because I felt so horrible. In the end, he told me he missed the way I looked and the way I was before (attitude-wise, personality-wise). Thing is, I forgot how I was already, he destroyed it and now he is trying endlessly to make it up to me and get me back my lost Janice-y attitude o.o basically, right now I am a total and utter mess. I realize I’m ranting LOL. But what I am telling you is, in the end, whomever you choose to be with, ensure that they love you wholly for you. Sure they could have liked girls different from you before meeting you either in appearance or personality, but now that they are with you, they should love you for you. Really, if they are unable to love and want you to look like yourself, or act like yourself they aren’t worth it. They aren’t loving the whole package, but picking it apart and deciding what they want and what they don’t and that is not love at all. Besides, let’s see Jessica Alba and all those other celebrities without their make-up, airbrushes, photoshop, lipo-suction, plastic surgery, breast augementation, you can barely even find such pictures for most of them, I bet they look like regular girls without those things. So Stefie, you are just perfect the way you are, don’t, please don’t try to change it.

And I listened to you whine and cry throughout it all too.

Be yourself. You look great!

glad I helped :)

Yes, yes you did o.o

Yes, yes you did o.o

Janicee, you really are very intelligent, i mean i suffered bulimia, i think its turning into anorexia…. idk :/ and im sorry to hear what you wet through. Your right… as usual :) thankyou.

Thank you soo much :) its really nice of you to say, i dont belive so but thank you.

Don’t EVER put you and your body through that for a guy :(. You’re lovely and beautiful, and I’m sure everyone on here agrees <33.

Don’t EVER put you and your body through that for a guy :(. You’re lovely and beautiful, and I’m sure everyone on here agrees <33.

First of all you can never be an celebrity?

You look very nice, and beautiful, I mean I wished that I looked like you. Don’t copy someone elses looks, your look is unique and you.