Advice quick please...

Unless your moms asthma is really bad and she has frequent attacks then you probably don’t have to worry about that. Was she older when she had u? Does she have a lot of health problems? If those are “no” answers sweetheart, know that she has forgiven you for the things in the past, and enjoy all the things you do together!! Make the good times and keep laughing so when EVENTUALLY the time comes to say goodbye you will have all those wonderful memories and not that you spent your whole life waiting and wondering when that day was coming. Enjoy your time with her and love her! [=

My mother has had asthma since she was 3 and my grandfather has asthma, they’re quite old now (lol, my mother wouldnt be pleased to hear that), any how… it’s not likely to kill them today… the medications have come a long way in helping people… And no one can tell you it’s going to be ok… no one can guarantee how long your mom will live, or how long you will live… Of course it is scary that you might lose her one day, but what’s the point of worrying about something you have no control over and you cant do anything about? When ever a thought like that comes into your head you need to talk yourself through it… Just say no, there is no point in making myself worry about this, and then go distract yourself… (the less time you give to these thoughts, the less frequently they’ll pop up). You also have to realize that when you’re in a close relationship with someone, odds are you will hurt them and odds are they will hurt you. That is part of life. There is no point regretting something you did because regret does not take it away. All you can do is apologize, acknowledge that it will probably happen again, and that is ok. Mothers love unconditionally. All she wants is for you to be happy. And if you’re constantly worrying about losing her, or saying the wrong thing, than you cant be happy. I would bet a lot that she would rather deal with your occasional hurtful remarks and outbursts, than have a child who was constantly trying to be perfect and not enjoying life in the process… (and an easy way to find this out is to ask her! I’ll bet I’m right!)