Why am I fantasising about my MOM?

hey people, well, I just felt like I SHOULD say this SOME time, ‘cause its been goin on for about 4 years now. I’m a 16 year old dude and I have a girlfriend. But like, I sorta have fantasies about my mom sometimes. yea, I know your probably thinkin “what the hell is wrong wit this freak?” but I don really give a * bout what people think bout this. I have fantasies about my mom since I was 12 and whenever summertime comes she starts wearin short shorts and whenever she sits down - her legs are crossed and when I look at them -my d!ck goes up and then I go to the toilet and just HAVE to jack off! so is it ok to be havin fantasies about my own mom? and PLUS I have a girlfriend too…

Answer #1

no its perfectly normal… its called the oedipus complex. being attracted to your mother and feeling competitive of your father for her love.

Answer #2

my friend i had the same feelings and maybe more than u,,but to be honest i want to say that our moms are seducing us(not all of them). or they wants to feel that they r still desireable and not got to be old, you are totally right,not your fault, i had an affair with my yonger sister too more than that.

Answer #3

I have actually heard a lot of guys talk about having sexual feeling towards their mom. As far as I know, it is because for most of your life your mom was the only woman in it. And you love her, so somehow that translates into looking at your mom and seeing what you think beauty is and yeah…you know the rest.

Answer #4

well. its a little weiird.. and to be honest if its been going onfor four years then thats a little too weird cause like think about it.. what if you get engaged four years from now and are still getting hard on’s everytime u see your mom. thats not normal. but maybe its just a stage.. have u fooled around with other girls, been turned on by other girls.. maybe u just need something new and exciting. goodluck lol

Answer #5

lol, your moms a person just like everyone else. while i wouldnt have fantasies about my mom or dad (i’m bi) it seems some what normal. :) uhm… yah… idk, its not like you can marry her or anything, not that you like have a crush on her, so if youre asking what to do about your girlfriend i’d stick with your girlfriend and try not to pay attention to your mom [sexually]. in the end shes your mom and most likely doesnt think about you like that. you just think shes attractive and while some people would probably beg to differ thats ok…

Answer #6

o.O whoa dude, its a bit weird yes…butidk what to do too.

Answer #7

dude, got a pic of your mom? I’d like to see her…

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