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A new guy in my life?

I have just recently started talking to this guy who is 20…I’m 19. We both seemed intrested in eachother which is a good thing since I havn’t had a boyfriend in a long time. What can I talk to a 20 year old guy about? And how do I get it to where were not only friends at this point? I want to beable to atleast say were dating or boyfriend/girlfriend (but that part might take a lil while.) but how can I do it when the time is right?

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Answer #1

Don’t rush with the boyfriend girlfriend thing yet…give it time and you’ll know when it is the right time to ask him…usually when you are more comfortable.

As for the talking, ask him about his work, studies, hobbies etc etc. Anything you can think of…ask him his favourite color…it really doesn’t matter as long as he can see you are interested and like listening to him.

Answer #2

He is only a year older than you so it should be easy to talk to him. Its not like he is 30! lol Music, art, politics, current events, similar interests etc. Just talking with him should let you be able to fully assess if he is good boyfriend material. And by that time, if he really likes you, he will ask you out. Otherwise, you can just keep it to being friends or ask him to hang out with you and see where it goes… funmail me if you need more help! :)

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