Am I being selfish that I want to be married before pregnant?

I am 25 and I am getting married in Dec. but I just found out I am pregnant…and This is not what I want right now…I wanted us to be married first! I don’t want to have to deal with a baby at my wedding..am I being selfish or is this a real concern??

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Answer #1

I think this is something you and your partner need to discuss. Ultimately, it’s your choice, but you need to take into account how your partner feels about the situation.

It’s not something you want for yourself, and I think it would be even more selfish to bring a child into the world when you don’t feel ready for it. You need to do what is best for you, not what everyone else wants you to do.

All the best with your decision.

Answer #2

No your not being selfish. Talk to your fiance. It doesn’t have to be a real concern if you dont want it to be. But talk to him about it. This isn’t just your baby.

if it comes down to you are not prepared for this, then that’s the way it is. you are not selfish though.

Answer #3

well, you just want everything to go as planed…nothing really bad. but eaither way, da baby is coming, you should be glad that your gona start a family. ^_^ maybe move up da wedding?

Answer #4

honestly…you are not being selfish…I mean yeah he’s your fiance and you guys are getting married and december but nothings really promised you know??? I mean getting married is the first step…you want to take things slowly…then again if you are in love with him you might as well keep your baby…your 25yrs old..your not gettin any younger so…Do whats best for you…

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