How can my boyfriend and I have a baby?

I’m 16 years old and I’m wanting a child with my boyfriend that I have been with for 5 months. He wants one too, but I’m afraid of what my family might say. I know it is going to be hard work, but I’m willing to take the responsibilities. How can I get pregnant?

Answer #1

hey listen im around the same age as you and u really shouldnt get pregnant yet u should give it some time think about how much this could affect your life uve only been dating the guy for 5 months and ur making that big of a commitment just seriously give it some time u’ll be glad u did later

Answer #2

Your family is going to say something like this “do you have any idea wat kind of responsibilty it is raising a child? your still a child yourself! how is your bf going to support you is he going to get a full time job, where are you gonna live? are you gonna drop out of school (if you still go) are you gonna work? whos gonna babysit while you work? you cant do this you still have your whole life ahead of you, your only 16 and you’ve only been with this guy for 5 months! babies come after years together and marriage and so on, you have to experience so many things before you settle down to raise a baby, you have the next 25 or so years for that….” i think your get my drift.

Answer #3

Ya i def agree with lizery. I kno babies are soooo cute but trust me your not ready. I kno you have been with your bf for fives months which isnt long enough to have a child, but also u r both to young. Things change and feelings change. I kno i was ready to marry my ex. We dated for a year and a half and i really thought he was the one, then i went to college and everything changed. Your still developing and changing. Hey who knows you very well could end up with ur bf but dont tie yourself down know with a child. You and your bf enjoy the time you have together whaile ur still young and do as much as u guys can. Trust me it goes by fast. You have so many things to look foward to and everything will change with a child. So not a good idea just yet.

Answer #4

Are you serious? Do you have any idea of the responsibility of a child? Wait 5 years and see what you think then. Picture this. You have a new baby. You no longer get time to yourself without making arrangements for a sitter. You have to work to support this child,again trying to get a sitter. Don’t get me wrong,children are wonderful but not when you yourself are a child. How old is your boyfriend?

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