How to handle possibly being pregnant?

I’m 14 years old and might be pregnant, I’m not sure how to go about the situation, I have a job and I’m homeschooled. My boyfriend has a job and a car but I’m don’t know how to handle the whole thing, like how to tell my mom and how to go about prental care and everything. So if anyone could help it would mean wonders. Also, please no rude comments, and I’ll appreciate everything, thank yoo’h.

Answer #1

Try an at home pregnancy test first and if it’s positive then check out a Planned Parenthood or Pregnancy Center. They can provide another test, prenatal care and a ton of resources that will help you.

You can do a search for your area:http://www.plannedparenthood.org/

Answer #2

WELL I WONT GIVE YOU A RUDE COMMENT BECAUSE THINGS LIKE THIS HAPPENS EVERYDAY, BUT REALLY I THINK YOU SHUD FIRST HAVE THE BABY, THEN JUST SIT DOWN WITH YOUR MOTHER AND JUST TELL HER THE RIGHT WAY BEFORE SHE FINDS OUT THE WRONG WAY

Answer #3

to ganjamasta.

okay I understand that im young, but before yoo’h judge me I did think about it.. I cant just get birth control, I told my mom I wanted it and she said no…but thank yoo’h for the advice

Answer #4

WELL I WONT GIVE YOU A RUDE COMMENT BECAUSE THINGS LIKE THIS HAPPENS EVERYDAY, BUT REALLY I THINK YOU SHUD FIRST HAVE THE BABY, THEN JUST SIT DOWN WITH YOUR MOTHER AND JUST TELL HER THE RIGHT WAY BEFORE SHE FINDS OUT THE WRONG WAY

Answer #5

I think you need to get a pregnancy test done before you start worrying about a lot of this stuff- what if you’re not pregnant and you get yourself worried over nothing? Best of luck.

Answer #6

Sorry to be rude but your sooo young that laterr on in life this guy probably wont even be with you …you know there is a thing called protection… like birth conrtol and so. on… being soo young you could of least thought about it geeze… the only way to know is if you get a pregnancy test… and once you find out you are you need to tell your mom!! being so young you have to tell her shes the only one that can help you and she might be mad at first but she will get over it. poor girl..

Answer #7

awe thank yoo’h so much, I really appreciate that = )

Answer #8

lol so she would rather you get pregnant and btw there is clinics that will give it too you without your mom…and if your mom wouldnt get them for you then… thats on her… if you get pregnant you tell her you tried sorry to judge you but … I just feel bad for all these young girls getting pregnant… its really hard with a baby…

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