my boyfriend loves it when i finger myself infront of him, but he asked me if he could video it! i am 14, what shall i say?

Answer #1

No. It will get on the Internet. It’s also illegal for your age. You both could get arrested

Answer #2

if i was you i would say no,just think if he shows it at school it could be sooo embarrassing for you

Answer #3

just tell him, be like, “why do u need a video if u watch it in person? i dont want to get caught video taping and i certainly dont want it to be seen by other people. take what u get” and if he still asks, tell him to get over himself:)

Answer #4

you could if you wanted to be seen on the internet and tv or something you could be famous if you don’t want to be famous say no no i don’t want you to the choice is yours

Answer #5

yah dont do it..might be fun, but what if that shit gets leaked out or posted somewhere. you don’t want to surf the net then all of a sudden find a video of yourself doing that

Answer #6

The only dang reason why ya’ll ask these questions is to get attention. That is freaken pathetic in my opinion. You shouldnt be doing that in front of anyone at your age. Do you realize how much trouble that can get you in at ur age. It could get ur bf sent off to something that is pretty much a little kids prison.

Answer #7

You say… NO, NO, NO

  1. This WILL get on the internet
  2. You WILL be labelled
  3. It could end up getting sent do your FRIENDS
  4. You are UNDER the age of consent and he and you could both get into big trouble. i.e. arrested

Oh and NEVER EVER agree to let a guy make a s3x video of you as in NEVER.

Answer #8

& why would he want to do that .. im sorry but i think if he respects you he wouldnt have asked you to tape it ..srry

Answer #9

No! No! No! cause i gurantee u it will end on in theinternet for the whole world to c a lil 14 year old fingrig her self..like NO!

Answer #10

ABsolutely NOT….there is no guarentee that this video would stay just between the two of you. No matter how close you are to him, no matter how good you feel about him….no matter anything…..this video has every chance of being broadcasted across the school….for that matter, the whole internet….forever and ever and ever. Never put yourself in a vulnerable position like that

Answer #11

There is a saying that I heard not too long ago that says, “If you can’t do it in church or in front of your parents DON’T DO IT AT ALL”

Answer #12

no, anything can happen between you too and that is the first thing he’s going to use against you

Answer #13

Uh NO! Bad idea. If you do that you never know who else could see it

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