What do I do if I fear my husband will cheat on me?

my husband and I have been married for 4 years. at this time he is away for six months for work, he's in tampa florida. I had to stay behind and work. I am a bartender/waitress. he wanted me to work there.
my problem is he has cheated on me before and now he hangs out a strip club in florida. I work 40 to 60 hours a week and try to call him as much as possible. I have a feeling he's going to do it again. I love him but I refuse to go through it again. I also have a friend who I recently made out with and though I should feel guilty…..I'm so lost.

Answer #1

this is wat i tell all my friends if u think he is cheating on you and he is in flordia then when he gets back tell him hit the road jack and i found me sumone who loves me and i want a divorce that is wat i would do. but if u don't want to do that then tell him you guys need to see a marriage counsler,

Answer #2

Girl I wouldn’t feel guilty one bit if he dose it you can do it to. What gose around comes around… Have fun soon he will relize that he is the guilty one cause he did it first.You were just getting your revenge in your own way.. Have fun and be careful he is haveing fun also all men are that way trust me…. They can’t stop looking at girls unless of course they are gay …Good luck

Answer #3

thanks for the advice. I sorta took matters into my own hands and have managed to find someone who may after all of this just be my friend but its all been worth it. he is beautiful in so many ways. he helped me find my voice and since meeting him i've started writing poetry again, something i'm pretty good at. he let's me be me, as wild and red neck as possible. i love him in a different way. he makes me happy. though as fate would have it. he's in love with a great girl and they are going to be married in august. i can sure pick um :) lol I have a husband so selfish he can't realize he's losing me and a friend that i could love. Oh and he kisses OMG can he kiss. so anyway thank you, have a good day

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