Im 15 And Pregnant

Hey so here is my question I’m 15 in a few days and I just found out that I was Pregnant I am also Engaged to be married on may 16th My fionce is 18 He is overjoyed about the baby you can just tell well here is the main point of my question I told my mo about the baby but she didnt listed she was kind of in her own world how do I get her to listen to me about the baby and my marriage.?

Answer #1

I know that I can only get married if I am 15 with parental consent I looked up the marriage laws my mom was married at my age and I know she will let me all I have to do is go to the juvinial court and tell them that I want to marry him I just want to know a way that I can talk to her without her blowing up.

Answer #2

thank you I know that it will happen I just dont know what to tell her do I just come out and say Im pregnant and want to get married? I know she will let me because she was married at my age to a 29 yr old

Answer #3

if im seeing correctly your mother doent know about the marriage?

if so you have to make special time to talk to her maybe over dinner or on a day when she isnt distracted. make your point clear… dont let her cave you in if she doesnt want to know MAKE her know

good luck

Answer #4

Well, give her some warning, tell her ahead of time that you have something to tell her. Maybe you two can go out for a cup of coffee to discuss it (except you shouldn’t be drinking coffee, lol). Am thinking that people are less likely to shout and scream in a public place. Hope it goes ok ;)

Answer #5

Maybe you should accept that there will be a blow up. Believe me, that’s actually the smallest of your worries right now. You have a lot more to think about.

So tell her, and deal with the adversity.

Answer #6

You need your parents consent to get married if you’re 16. In Utah you can only get married at 15 if you have the court’s approval, which you might need it you’re pregnant. So, the marriage isn’t going to happen without her AND the courts knowing about it…

Answer #7

I know I was really excited we went out for coffee she was like ok whats with this I just told her and she said well its was your desicion to do that and ill let you face the consequences but im happy that you are keeping it and that I will be a grandma. Then she said im old anyways lol even tho she only 30 she had me at the same age.

Answer #8

thank you Pink Pearl! It worked I took your advice and my mom is actually happy that I am having a baby!

Answer #9

sit down and have a talk with her without any distractions that will help

Answer #10

I see your happy now…

have a good future with the baby and a happy marriage ;)

Answer #11

thank you people so much it helped a lot :)

Answer #12

awww :) :) :) :) :) great!

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