How do I break up with my girlfriend , can I , will I?

My girlfriend says she loves me and all but my friends (they are girls) tell me she doesnt want me anymore but I don’t know if its true or they just want me to break up so I can go with another girl called kenya.my girlfriend is leaving to another school next year but she says that I shoulld go with her , I don’t know to belive her or not. and kenya which is the other irl who likes me and I liked because we are very good friends and she got mad because she knows I kinda feel somthin 4 her and I have a girlfriend , well I dont want to break up , I love her but I don’t know what to do.

Answer #1

If she (your girlfriend) is telling you she loves you then believe it… relationship is based on trust, and if you start doubting her and one day confront her, she’ll be hurt and disappointed if what you were told was the lie. Try what Sarah is suggesting, have er talk with her… mention you’re hearing rumours that she doesn’t actually loves you (BUT without confronting her)… you’re a couple, and as a couple you should talk about these things and not hope it’ll work out eventually, and keep your worries secret to each other. Secrets and silence are only damaging.

And tell those girls you appriciate that they are trying to tell you about your girlfriend, but you chooses to believe her cause you trust her.

Answer #2

If you love her, dont break up with her because of what other people are saying. Talk to her, tell her that you heard people saying that she dosent want to be with you anymore. On top of that why would she tell you to go to the school that she will be going to if she doesnt want you anymore. The other girls most likily werent telling you the truth!

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