How can I stop her from ruining my life?

K so there is this girl from my school and she is really rude and mean, well only to me atleast.. I dont do anything mean to her… well she flirts with my boyfriend and I talked to him about that so I think its good and well we were standing near eachother and someone asked me if I asked my boyfriend out or if he asked me and I said he asked me then Marissa ( the girl who is ruining my life and flirts with my boyfriend ) said I wonder why which was pretty rude in my opinion. and for recess I try to play volleyball and I get yelled at by her and then I cant play then I start to watch, but then she glares at me like she is gonna kill me so then I cant even watch and I feel like im getting depressed now and I don’t know what to do bout it. What do I do :( please I need advice Thank You.

Answer #1

you are 14 and you have a boyfriend… thats the start of the problem just so you know. if he allows her to flirt with him then leave him and punch her in the nose well thats what I would do if I was a 14 yo female p.s. ask your MOM for advise and if she isnt around ask your sister and if you dont have one ask your DAD

Answer #2

awe, love how old are you? honestly I’d sock the fuck outta herrr. you need to stick up for yourself, & say somethin to her. (:

Answer #3

This girl sounds like a total B*! The whole flirting with your boyfriend is just making her a slut btw. And By now I would have hit her. Dont step down from anybody, especially TRASH!! I’V been taught this lesson from my whole family. Dont let the hate of one desperate girl ruin your life, she is probably jealous anyway

Answer #4

I don’t want to promote violence, but if you feel the need, deck her in the face. Your boyfriend should stick up for you.

Answer #5

Oh come on. when you’r 14 I felt grown enough to have a boyfriend. You’r not incabable of making decitions for youself. Sweetie if I was you as long as your boyfriend has no interest in this girl I would ignore her. The less you show that it gets to you the more she will try but eventually she will give up. It sounds to me as if she likes your boyfriend and is rather jealous of you being with him. Id probably laugh at her. I would flaunt around the fact you have the wanted guy and she dosent. That would almost change the tables around completley. You have the uper hand in the situation don’t let her think other wise.

And when people stare at me I make the most rediculous faces back. Let her hate. But find the humor in the situation and make her feel dumb back.

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