He doesn't want to marry me.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. Marriage and children have come up a lot it’s becoming more important to me. I live for the day that my man makes this big romantic proposal because I know that we’re so in love… but, he tells me that the only thing that is holding him back from proposing to me is my jealousy. I don’t get it though. I’m not that jealous and I think that once he proposed, I’d feel less insecure. I’d feel like he really does want to be with me forever. He always says that he doesn’t want to marry me for that reason and that reason only. I’m sure a lot of people know how I feel and they know that it’s not easy to stop jealousy because believe me… I wish I could stop being jealous. Am I wasting my time here? If I know it’s too hard for me to change, should the relationship just be over? I don’t know what to do here… I’m in a relationship and we love each other to death but I don’t see it going anywhere right now. Please help.

Answer #1

Nope he shouldn’t break up with you if he realizes the reason you are a jealous person is b/c you love him so much. I don’t see the problem with jealousy long as you get your point across without becoming angry and starting big arguments. My girlfriend is a jealous one for sure even if I add a chick on myspace she will get mad and be like why are you adding girls for. But not really mad more just you know letting me know she sees I added her and wants to know why. She is just cautious bc she loves me so much and I see that and thats one of the things I love about her bc I feel like I don’t have to worry about her doing anything dumb and breaking us up.

Tell him what I said and maybe he will agree and be like well thats true it would suck if she acted like she didn’t care when I talked to females. I mean seriously I’d feel like my girl didn’t really care about me if she let me hugg all over other girls and be flirty and such.

good luck with w/e happens

Answer #2

my partner is very jelous!! drives me bananas but I still love him, I would still marry him

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