How do I know if my one of my girl best friends likes me and wants me more than a friend?

I mean i asked her if she likes me more than a friend she says yes but… im not sure if i should make a move or not? plus she ignores me sometimes it seems like on purpose… what do u think of that? and she kissed me few times and we were never together… how do i know if she really wans me? She is bi too.

Answer #1

The ideal thing to do is ask this “girl best friends” of yours instead of guessing if she is bi or not. Ask her and get it out of the way, if she is upset or does not want to be your friends, that is a risk you need to take.

Answer #2

ok well wait i have 2 copy something that happened

like i called her cuz she called me at like 330pm but i was in the shower i called her back at 335pm and we kept rambling i had work at 4pm and didnt get off the phone with her until 347pm and i only got like 3 spoon fulls of my cereal newayz while she was talkin she goes that she dont count how long we hangout just hangin out with meand spending time with me is fun and she likes hangin out and all and she brought up past times where i wud b at her apartment with her like everyday alone with her… and me and her are supposed 2 hangout after she gets dun wit work wed….

wed i hungout with her and… I asked her bout me and her and if she likes me and thinks im cool and all shes just really attached to her ex now but she can see us bein more she just wans to know more about me and all

Answer #3

LOL that was a very confusing but insightful. I still reckon you should just ask her, seeing you are 24 years old and not a teenager anymore, being upfront is a good ideal, less mind game, the better a friendship will be. Just have a chat with her, if you add some humour to the discussion it will lighten the topic (if she is gay or not) and she will not be offended (hopefully).

Answer #4

well she did make a joke when we were eatting and she goes… “ she wudnt b able 2 date some1 like me because im a picky eatter lol because i didnt know if i would like the food her dad made” (she said it as a joke) and thats how i got courage 2 ask her in person how she feels about me… yesterday she left for a weekend vacation with one of her other best friends which is a guy… im her other best friend…. neways that morning i txted her and all and asked her wats up and she said she was at work and leavin soon for the long trip… so me and her were txting throughout the day even if it was only a few times throughout the day because she was enjoying the ride and all… neways she gets 2 her 1st location and tells me if i wan talk on the phone with her call our guy friend who she went on the trip with because her phones roaming… i told her she can just call me if she wans so a few mins l8r she txt me and she said she had 2 run and do something and that she will call me as soon as she gets finished on his phone… so then she calls me on his phone and we talk for a lil bit then she puts it on speaker because she wanted all 3 of us to hear her coversation… then she said i can still txt her when we get off the phone because she is goin 2 b up for a lil while i said i was goin 2 try and sleep… she goes if i cant sleep then txt her so i txt and we txt for maybe a hour or 2 then she tells me shes tired and all and i tell her yah i need 2 get some sleep too… and we both said sleep well in the txt… now wat do u think of that? (o and im like the only person outa her friends that she called i think… and maybe txted when she got 2 the place but i might be wrong)

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