Are we too young to fall in love?

im 14 and engaged, me and my boyfriend love eachother.. but I hate it when people say aren't you too young!!

Any one think were too young?

Because I don't think your too young too fall in love!!??!!

Thanks X

Charlotte xXx

I dont think your going to get the answers you want to hear.

Whats the hurry?? Yes, you ARE too young. You are still a child. Neither of you has finished growing up yet. As we grow, we change. It means that in three years time, you will be both be different people. Not better, not worse, not wiser, just different. And you might not want to marry each other.

Love is not forever at such a young age.(rarely) Everyone goes through 'puppy love' and 'first love' and various levels of relationships. It is part of the learning process. You will learn what is important, what isn't, what matters to you and what doesn't. You have to learn what makes a lasting relationship by having a few work and not work. Some teenagers change boyfriends or girlfriends more often than they change their underwear! A rare few stay dating the same person throughout their senior high school years. However, such relationships rarely last much beyond senior high school graduation as many go in different directions.

Being in love is a powerful feeling. The emotions are intense. It is so exciting that it may be hard to concentrate on taking care of school or work or family responsibilities. Sometimes people confuse real love with the possessive love they may see on TV or the movies. Real, mature love takes more time to develop. Many teens believe they are in love. They may be in love in an immature way. Sometimes teens or adults in love give up all their friends. Sometimes they stop doing activities they enjoy. Some have jealous partners that never let them be alone or with another person. They are jealous of any time their loved one talks to another person. Others are forced to do things they do not want to do, or are in a violent relationship. These are unhealthy relationships. This is not love.

Mature love lets you be you. People in mature love have common interests, and are honest with each other. People who share mature love do not see the other person as the solution to their problems. They see the other person as a wonderful gift. Mature love relationships do not cause people to give up their values. Most of the time this mature love comes when we are beyond our teen years.

Thanks for commenting =] xXx

There's no chance you're not too young. If you weren't too young, you wouldn't have asked this question.
You're not too young to really care for this boy, and maybe even to feel love for him, but being engaged is just silly.

hey charlotte
I am engaged to and I am 13 I have told my best friend and thats it the first thing
she sed to me was are you sure and can she be a bridemaid lol
no one is too young to fall in love thats what my mum said
just forget every one who says it and just carry on !

can I ask a tiny question !

how did you tell your mum?
I am stuck on that ting part lol

Yeah, seriously. Getting engaged at thirteen and fourteen? I did get engaged when I was five, but I think I knew I was playing house.

I honestly think 19 is to young to get married. My cousin got married at 19 and she divorced in a month and still is 19. No need to rush into it my gosh. you cant get jobs to pay for the wedding. I have friends that are marreid at 19 and they bicker all the time. So I think it would be best no be engaged I think its dumb and at that age. When I was 14 I could care less about a relationship it was all about my friends and having fun not being tied down to one person. Then think when you want out of the marriage, go thru all that bull crap to get out of it. Nothing is wrong with just being with them w/o a ring. What if he changes his mind and you get hurt cause you were all excited or vise versa. I say that you should just stick with just b/f and g/f no need to think about marriage

just cause you love someone doesnt mean you get married just so ya know

You CAN be in love at 14. But you don't have to get engaged! God, why the hell do you want to grow up so fast?!!
Stay a kid for a while longer.
Enjoy being a kid for as long as you can.
And if, in a few years, you still love your boyfriend, THEN get engaged to him. And marry him. Just make sure you're in love and it
s not just lust.

Guys...Im not going to get married untill im around 20-21! Just so you know! For now were just engaged and happy!

And it's not 'silly' as some said!

Charlotte X

...let us know if you're still IN LOVE with each other when you're twenty-one. I highly doubt it, and so does everyone who is past the age of eighteen.

And there's a reason for that. I do know a few people who got engaged when they were fifteen who made it to marriage, and they're Hmong.

Too young to be engaged, too young for proper logic & reasoning...

Exactly how legitamate is this engagement? Do you have yours, and his parents blessing? Do you have a diamond ring? Have you announced it to everyone, and put it in the paper?

Honestly, if I had a 14 yr old daughter, and she told me she was engaged, I'd seriously think she was joking. Please come back here in 6 years. (if this site is still around), and let us know if you are still with the same boy! We'd loved to have you prove us wrong, but in all honesty...I really think you are being the silly one!

yes.. mi parents do no about it dey sed as long as im happy same wiv his!

And yes evry1 dus no bout it!

And yes I do have a diamond ring!

And yes it is official!

So =P

Where did he get the money to pay for a ring, when hes barely old enough to get a job? I think your living in a fantasy world, and in 3 years your going to wake up, and realize it was just a dream.

Like I said before...come back here in a few years, and let us know if your still with him, because I would bet money on it that you wont be! Trust me>your very young, and very foolish. First love is always very confusing. He isnt your true love. He wont come around till later in your life.

>>>yes.. mi parents do no about it dey sed as long as im happy same wiv his!

My god. What kind of parents do you and your boyfriend have? I'm guessing they're rich, in which case I can't blame you for being this stupid. I mean, seriously?

Move over, Paris Hilton!

Hahaha...

You aren't too young to fall in love but you are WAAAYYY too young to be engaged. Guarantee you, few months from now you guys won't even be together. Just stay boyfriend and girlfriend until you both decide what to do with your lives.

Oh, and I assume he got you an expensive ring?

okay, this is slightly ridiculous. you are fourteen, right? oh my gosh. come on. how long have you two been together? a month or two? less?

I'm almost seventeen, and I've been with my boyfriend for over two years (since we were fourteen). I want to marry him, yes. but we're waiting to get engaged. I want him to surprise me. I want him to be able to afford a ring for me. and I want my parents to know we love each other.

there's no way at fourteen you know how you feel for sure about this boy. and there's no way you know him inside and out...

it took me a year into my relationship to realize my love for my boyfriend, and it's definitely still growing. he's my best friend, and I know as life goes on, so will my love - it will grow.

you are way too young to be engaged. one day you'll grow up and realize it was so stupid to have done that.

until then, just wait until you get to that point. don't make BIGGER mistakes.

sorry that this is my 3rd post, but I forgot some stuff and my computer messed up, so I did it over. both have interesting points, anyway.

So what if we are rich???

and ye he gt me a much nycer ring...betta dan da 1 you will get!

Na na na na my ring is better than yours! Waaah.

Grow up. No one cares about your income.

You are too young to be engaged. You wanted opinions, so don't get pissy when they're not the reactions you wanted to hear. Honestly. Be sure to come back on this website and update us all when you are married in 7+ years, k?

>>>So what if we are rich???

It shows. Only rich parents would be okay with their fourteen-year-old daughter being engaged 'as long as she's happy.' Their being rich also explains how your teenage boyfriend could actually afford a diamond ring. You know, that's called bad parenting - the reason you're still so spoiled when you're technically old enough to know better. I'm not sure how famous Paris Hilton is in the U.K., but you should Google her. That's pretty much you in the future.

I'm afraid that you're nowhere as intelligent as you think you are. I have a feeling that you won't even realize how stupid you're being by the time you're twenty-three (Paris Hilton didn't). You also will make a lousy lawyer with the kind of rebuttals you've offered so far.