Did he rape me?

I was seeing this boy for 6months and had a sexual relationship with him… he then moved away , we kept in touch over the internet and he made me send him naked pictures of myself to him or he sed he wouldnt like me anymore. e soon stopped speaking and I found a new boyfriend who I’ve been with for a year now and I love him. the problem is my old boyfriend has moved back here and keeps harrasing me wanting to meet up , but I dont want to! I met up with him a few weeks ago and he threatened to show everybody these naked pictures of me if I didnt have sex with him ! I sed I didnt care (but I did) and made it obvious I wouldnt do anything with him because of my boyfriend! but he didnt listen and still went ahead and did it , I tried screaming but I just let him finish because there was nothing elce to do. I know it is kind of rape but as we used to have a relation ship he thinks its ok to do it and now he wont stop calling me and threatens if I dint see him again he will put these pictures up everywhere! I dont know what to do :’(

Answer #1

yes, you need to tell the police right away. also tell them about the pictures because he cant do what he wants to you just because you had a relationship at one point in time. the police will be able to get the pictures and protect you from him.

Answer #2

Just because you two had a sexual relationship at one time, doesnt mean he can take advantage of you whenever he wants! No one can make you do anything you dont want to do! You made a bad mistake by sending this loser naked pics of you. That is something you should NEVER give to a boyfriend. It can always be used against you. This boy knows he can control you, and he will continue to do so if you dont start standing up for yourself! You need to tell an adult you trust about what he did! The next time he calls, tell him that if he doesnt leave you alone, your going to report him to the authorities!

Answer #3

yes he did you need to tell the police now. he wil try it again if he because he believes he can get what he wants. the police can protect you from him

Answer #4

Yes he raped you. You need to report it to the police and find someone you can talk with. People should think really hard before they let someone take pictures of them. pictures don’t just go away. The polce should be able to get these pictures away also if you tell them about them.

Answer #5

What he did was rape. You need to go to the police and report him. “”I know it is kind of rape but as we used to have a relation ship”” That doesn’t matter, it’s your body and you said NO.

Call 1 800 656 HOPE. That’s the RAINN hotline. http://www.rainn.com

xox Sika

Answer #6

Report it at the police, as soon as possible. You should have done it right after he raped you. I know you survived this rape, but he thinks that he can repeat it when he wants to. So you have to protect yourself.

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