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underwaterophelia's Advice
No one will hire you, and you aren't doing the right thing by keeping your baby. By keeping it, instead of giving it to a stable family that can care for it properly, you will make the baby's life harder and your own life harder.
You could get married in court and then have a non religious ceremony.
Honestly, I think she is doing this to make your mother angry and to try to get you to like her more.
I used Proactiv, too, and it does tend to make your acne worse at first.
You're 17. Pregnancy would be a mistake.
I would recommend not using foundation and concealer at all, but a facial moisturizer and some light powder.
Talk to a parent or other responsible adult you're close with.
I'm not sure exactly why this happens, but it is normal, and it's very common.
First of all, just relax. Lice are yucky, but it doesn't mean you're dirty or gross. In fact, lice prefer cleaner heads. You don't have to go to the doctor to get the lice killing shampoo, but it is recommended. Instead, go to a drugstore (or may...
I can tell you this: someone who is actually into goth and is a mature person does not care about "prep," "emo," "skater," or any of that crap. Actually...ANYONE who is a mature person doesn't care about those things.
Sometimes cell phones can set off those alarms.
Hair does not grow back more coarse, thicker, darker, etc. It seems that way because naturally, the end of the hair is rounded and soft, but when you shave, you cut it, and so it's rough at the end.
I don't think there is any specific birth control that makes your breasts bigger, but sometimes with different BC pills, that does happen. However, just because there are women who experience breast growth with a certain kind of pill does not mean you...
pacsun, debs, dots and rainbow is not for 11 years olds Why not? I work in a PacSun, and there's tons of clothes that would fit and be appropriate for an 11 year old.
It's legal, but I wouldn't let a 12 year old watch small children.
PacSun.
Ineffective.
Maybe you have an STD and gave it to him.
I don't know if I think it's offensive, but it's definitely stupid.
Honestly, I'd say no. I've been keeping rats for years, and they need LOTS of space, especially if there's more than one--because they may feel cramped and fight. Try just getting a plain wire cage with a solid floor.
You're going to stick a needle through a baby's ear because you think it'll be cute? Are you out of your mind?
I'd pick dance.
Stress, inadequate diet, and extreme weight loss can all affect your period. Of course, those aren't the only things that can affect it.
It's not ok to skip. You can get a blowout, which not only is excruciatingly painful, it's EXTREMELY easy to get it infected, and it might make it so that your ear can no longer be gauged.
About six inches excluding the tail.
That is absolutely untrue. You can get pregnant. Use a condom every day.
No. If you miss a pill, abstain from sex for a week--assuming you resume taking your pills every day.
Girls used to say that to me when I was in middle school, too. The truth was that I didn't stuff my bra, I just developed breasts early. This is one of those cases where the girls are just jealous because you have breasts and they don't. Don't l...
Go to Planned Parenthood. They won't tell your parents.
BARTZINA.
If "she" tries this for too long, she'll die.
The doctor has no reason to believe you didn't get it done without your parent's permission, and there's no medical relevance, so unless s/he knows your parents personally, I'd think it's safe to assume they won't be told.
Heath Ledger, hands down.
My rats are named Magellan and Trent. In the past I've had Othello, Bowie, Heathcliffe...
NO. NO. NO. Unless it is marketed and prescribed to you as a form of birth control, it is very unwise to count on not getting knocked up.
NOT WOOD SHAVINGS. Wood shavings cause respiratory problems in small animals. Go with Carefresh bedding, or old cut up blankets and towels.
Metallica both sucks and blows.
This is absolutely awful. It's not awful because it's about violence, it's awful because it's cliche and has absolutely no substance. It's about nothing, and it doesn't even express it's pointless subject in a meaningful way. That said, don't gi...
You're not fat, and you know that.
I smoked weed, and I had some fun times, but I started to think about it, and started to think about the person I was becoming, and I stopped. Smoking weed seems really cool and really fun, but no one needs a drug to have a good time.
Selflessness.
You sound like a pear. Small on top, bigger on the bottom.
Physically, all guys like something different. Some things I'm sure most, if not all guys all like would be cleanliness, good sense of humor, and confidence.
It's neither a blessing nor a curse, it's just another thing that makes you who you are.
Don't wear white--wear something with gold tones, brown tones, or green tones. Don't wear a dress or a skirt that's short--this is a very important day, and it's not your time to show off your legs. Wear something flattering, but modest. Just above ...
My dad's hamburgers are fantastic. Extra rare, extra cheese. My brother also cooks insane ribs.
Goths wear any colour they want.
It's a scam.
Sushi is always a good choice. Chicken breast. Egg white omelet. Most fish.
It's called jock itch. Jock itch is just a yeast infection.