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My Names MandyLoo
I'm 23 Years Old
I have a gorgeous son who is 4 months old.
I'm engaged to a wonderful man who has my heart.
I'm honest, i wont beat around the bush, and will give you just the facts.
I'm PRO-CHOICE and an atheist. I stand very firm in my beliefs on both of these also.
I've lived a great life and done things i shouldn't have, but it all lead me to where i am and i woudn't change any of it.
I can't pick a career to save my life.
I've worked in tattoo/piercing shops.
I've worked at strip clubs and bars.
I've worked at desk jobs.
I was a cake decorator for 3 years.
I want to do it all but i dont have the time.
I'd rather stay at home with my son.
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Because ""emos"" pick up the emo trend and then pretend everyone hates them... when honestly no one cares. It's just another annoying group of kids playing pretend at the mall. When you get out of high school being emo or scene or whatever social l...
Can you type in proper english please? or... sorry let me translate. cn you typ and prpr englesh plais? xox Sika
He needs to get into counseling. The homophobic issue aside, he was RAPED. it's a traumatic event for anyone and can have some serious effects on your life and how you think about things. Our brains store information - lets say it's like folders on a...
If you had a ridiculously large amount it could. Mythbusters did an episode testing this myth. They used a pig's stomach to test it on. A normal amount did nothing. (it'll just give you gas) but filling the whole stomach with it, made it rupture. Has...
The cigarette and alcohol companies have a lot of money in the government. So that's why it's illegal and everyone thinks it's "bad." xox Sika
He's 21 and you're 16. In most states that makes sexual relations between you two illegal. That is... the STATE can charge him with statutory rape, he'll go to jail and he will forever be on a pedophile list. Yes. You ARE still a child and he is an adu...
It's your body, not his. It's there now so you might as well let the cat out of the bag. A tattoo really is no big deal, and if he has a problem with it, show him the door. xox Sika
Why would you need to tell them? You can't do porn until you're 18... a legal adult. When you're a legal adult you don't need to ask your parents permission to do something. If you want to do porn, then do porn. Tell them later. If they disapprove, oh...
I'm pro-choice. Here's my view point: Every woman should know if she were to get pregnant if she would want an abortion or not. Then at the earliest sign of pregnancy they shouldtake action if they plan on abortion. Medical abortions are an induced ...
The odor could be because of too much vaginal discharge. The shot might help if the hormones change the amount of discharge. The smell could be from poor hygiene or even something as simple as wearing pants too tight or spandex underwear. (try cotto...
Definition of an Orgasm: The peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male. Also called cl...
...wow people REALLY have no clue about the hymen. The hymen usually doesn't fully cover your vagina. (otherwise how would menses pass from a girl who hasn't tore her hymen?!?!) The hymen is a layer of tissue at the entrance of your vagina (yes, ...
I think a shorter answer would be how many HAVEN'T. xox Sika
White discharge in various amounts is normal in teenage girls due to hormonal imbalance during puberty, time of ovulation, period of the menstrual cycle, before periods, etc. You should contact your health care physician or a gynecologist if you ha...
many of the symptoms of pregnancy are also symptoms and side effects of illnesses and ailments. You could simply have your period coming on and have the stomach flu. Everyone is right, a few days late isn't anything to worry about. Wait a week or s...
...or go to any clinic and get a whole hand full for free. (I always wonder why people buy them... when you can get such an abundance for free.) xox Sika
You should set live monarch butterflies free. Google it, there are many companies that will ship you live butterflies to set free. Also try looking on theknot.com xox Sika
None of that works... if you're like me you'll just pick at them too. Nail biting and nail picking have always been battle for me... why I dunno. It's something I've done since I was really little. What I do is get my nails done every couple of...
did you not even comprehend the answers above? This site is by no means a huge empire and cannot afford to allow themselves to fall into any type of liability. It's always wise to err on the side of caution. You agreed to the terms of use when you s...
It happens because we as a society tend to ignore sexuality in teens at that age. We just shrug our shoulders and tell them not to have sex... and then expect them not to. Which is completely unrealistic. What we need to do is offer more sexual educ...
Yes it's normal. The morning after pill is like a high dose of birth control. It thickens your cervical mucous to slow down any active sperm and prevents a fertilized egg from implanting in the uterine lining (which may also cause it to shed - cause...
once again I'll state such questions could be a liability for the site. You need to put things into perspective. Locking/deleting such questions has nothing to do with discrimination or judgments. If it upsets you that much.. Why don't you invent ...
It is ultimately your decision. I know plenty of girls who have had abortions and DIDNT have "great remorse" or depression afterwards. They went on with their normal lives. As far as adoption... How many anti-abortion people do you think adopt? h...
Ron Jeremy maybe?
At age 18 you can do whatever you want. (unless maybe you're not really 18) Maybe just hold out a little longer until you graduate and are out of the house. Then you'll be on your own and can live by your own rules. xox Sika
A part of the mental disorder that goes along with many ED's is "recruiting" other people and helping them further their illness and looking for anorexic supporters to share "tips". Let's also not forget that suicide and anorexia are very different as...
I believe in the bible about as much as I believe in the brothers grimm fairy tales. xox Sika
You should take the advice of your doctor, a -professional- health care physician. xox Sika
A job without customers... pretty much the only thing is a warehouse (without a degree and finishing school that is.) I really don't think you would like warehouse work. It's physically demanding and often times the supervisors are insensitive becau...
I'll also add that many times inappropriate questions will be locked by an advisor to be deleted by a moderator later. xox Sika
In indiana the age of consent is 17, but even if the person is at the age of consent, an older person could still be punished for having sex with a minor. It's is a good idea to just wait until you're 18. xox Sika
your stomach wouldn't be expanding so early in pregnancy... not for a few months. It is most likely just bloating. (I noticed your questions on "trying to get pregnant" -perhaps you aren't pregnant and are getting ready to start your period?) If you...
In indiana the age of consent is 17, but even if the person is at the age of consent, an older person could still be punished for having sex with a minor. It's is a good idea to just wait until you're 18. xox Sika
Actually it wouldn't be your mom pressing charges. She can report it but it would actually be the STATE pressing charges. You're a minor and he's an adult which makes sex between you two illegal. It's called statutory rape and he should know better. ...
family guy is the best xox Sika
it is very possible to become pregnant before the pills take effect. If you have questions it's best to post them as a new question rather than as an answer to a previous question. More people will see it which means you're more likely to get answer...
Don't Close your eyes from Mary Poppins Goodnight My Someone from Music Man look to musicals, there's a lot of lullaby type songs. xox Sika
condoms are only about 80% reliable. (which means you have a 20% chance of pregnancy and contracted an STD.) Pre-ejaculate fluid is produced separately from sperm in the male body. But the secretion's purpose is to clean out the urethra which will c...
A lot of cutters have found this article helpful: http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/problems/resisting_cutting.html If you've been cutting and you want to stop, here are some approaches that might help you. For people who cut, doing someth...
Take as many opportunities to sing and perform as you can and promote yourself. use youtube, myspace, talentmatch.com, exploretalent.com etc, xox Sika
Bleeding is not a sign of pregnancy. Bleeding early in pregnancy is typically spotting to just very light. Some women bleed during pregnancy but it is for a different reason. It is biologically impossible to have menses while being pregnant. xox ...
If it was within the last 3 days, you should get the morning after pill to help prevent a pregnancy. if not you just have to play the waiting game, take a test and hope for the best. xox Sika
Yes you are. Wait until you're 18 to fool around with the guy. HE can go to jail because you're a minor making sexual relations between you two illegal - statutory rape. He should know better, he's an adult. xox Sika
It sounds like what they are doing is inappropriate - especially at school. It's sexual harassment and you should tell an adult. If it's "what you like" then save it for after school and for a time when it's more appropriate. xox Sika
LMAO... there's no ""winning"" a debate like this. Have fun partying by yourself. And just to clarify. Some people are not atheist(like me). We just have ""different"" beliefs. You can put the torch down now, it's kinda blinding me. xox Sika
The hymen will only stretch or tear significantly to permit something into the vagina. So you're right, it may not have tore or broke. It may take quite a few penetrations before it becomes comfortable. Some women are born with perforated hymens...
I second what sue90 said. Sexual abuse is something that WILL affect you on many many levels until you deal with it. (and even then, it's not something you can erase.) What he did was illegal and very very wrong. It was NOT your fault. You were a littl...
You should consult the leaflet that came with your pills. It will tell you. xox Sika
***So why would ''God'' give women the ability to org**m if it has nothing to do with procreation?*** I noticed the pictures the other day... I figured this guy was a joke and would disappear soon. I mean come on... an 18 year old who is not going to...
7 days. Most doctors and gynos will tell you a month or longer so you get in the habit of taking a pill daily. (since one missed pill increases your chances of pregnancy.) xox Sika