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The smell isn't just on your breath... alcohol comes through your pores, so the smell isnt so easy to mask, and neither is your behavoir. (otherwise lots of drunk drivers would get away with it!) Drinking really isn't wha it's hyped up to be... I kn...
As a general rule you shouldn't mix betas with other fish... However each fish is unique and has it's own personality so you can try it but be prepared to separate them at the first sign of aggression. xox Sika
"I feel that all life is precious, and that life begins at conception. " all LIFE or all HUMAN life? Many "pro-lifers" would think nothing of wiping down the kitchen counter to KILL bacteria... or that the burger you just ate KILLED a cow... or th...
Almonds are a great appetite supressor and a really good healthy snack (also drinking lots of water... it fills you up without the damage!) xox Sika
I think you're "bi-curious". Most women are. Bi-curious is being interested in both genders. Bi-sexual is acting on those urges. xox Sika
Elizabeth Arden's Provocative Woman... I get a lot of compliments on my "scent" with this one. You can find it at most major retailers xox Sika
you're welcome! :) xox Sika
Just get her to bed, get her some water (and maybe a bucket next to the bed...) She'll be ok... she just needs to sleep it off and ...she'll be hung over tomorrow. If her drinking is a constant problem maybe you should talk to her and tell her how ...
"neither there both idiots" paijerandi1369 ... I love when people insult others' intelligence and show their OWN level. The proper grammar would have been "neither, THEY'RE both idiots." better luck next time. xox Sika
Well first get your hands on as much musicianship classes as you can. (music theory, choir, even theatre.) And audition for EVERYTHING Maybe find a vocal coach or teacher to help you. Then look into recording your own songs. A good way to practice ...
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I don't think it should be banned, but I think there should be harsher punishments and zero tolerance for things like DUIs and public drunkeness. xox Sika
Against. Here's why. Killing people is illegal (with a gun or not) right? Well... so these criminals that are killing people... if they are going to break the law to KILL someone... I highly doubt they'd have a problem breaking the law to get a gun...
Palin ... oh I mean McCain :) xox Sika
I think I remember reading on the package (the pink box of the clairol kind anyways) that it isn't very effective after an hour. xox Sika
myspace videos, yahoo video, ifilm.com metacafe.com Last I saw tho, there was some good ones on youtube. Althought I don't agree with bootleg vids, it can be tough to get to NYC to see a show.(It's not fair to the actors and the production team.....
there is a window of like 2 days where she is "safe" but in order to figure out that window... she needs to be very acute when paying attention to her cycle. She would have to use a system called fertility charting... most couples use it to tell whe...
mandyloo .. it wasn't a mistake on her part... she's a minor. The adult should know better and techinically it IS child molesting. It's statutory rape. An adult 21 or older with a minor below the age of 16... He CAN go to jail for that and would be...
so... you were pregnant before and lost it from being pushed down the stairs by your dad? cus you just had a post about being pregnant and not knowing who the father was and it turned out negative... Anyways... that aside. You need to go to the a...
Moral reasons, personal reasons... I'm interested in joining RAINN because they help rape and sexual abuse victims. I was a victim and would like to help others. A lot of organizations are non profit and volunteer only, so not all people do it for m...
Jackie's Last Dance from Andrew Lippa's Wild Party (instrumental) - It's a sad orchastration. (an idea for a mime for this song would be a failed tight rope attempt. Act it out - remember you have no props so you have to indicate what you are doing b...
Cats can get pretty stressed. I don't know the personality of your cat but I know mine hates when I'm gone for an 8 hr day let alone weeks! I would take him with you, most planes will allow you to have a small pet in a small carrier as a carry on for a...
Obama is 47 and McCain is 72 xox Sika
because our society accepts masculine females but not generally feminine males. xox Sika
Well generally you can take classes, especially going to college and getting a degree in acting and performing arts. Then you audition your butt off! ;) xox Sika
I believe it's Time xox Sika
I think make up for men (mainly eye liner) is best left for the stage, movies and nightclubs. but everyone has their own perception of "sexy" so who are we to judge? xox Sika
One question - If someone kissed another person of the OPPOSITE gender (girl/guy) to be "cool" would you find THAT disgusting? If no then you're question has some homophobic tones to it. (and quite frankly THAT's disgusting) Kissing another perso...
Some women cannot orgasm from vaginal stimulation(penetration) alone. They need clitoral stimulation as well. If she has never experienced an orgasm or never experienced one on her own, you should encourage her to do some "solo play" to figure out w...
he was outside washing the window and jumped IN xox Sika
Depends on the context. If it's confirming to another that your teeth hurt then it is "My teeth do hurt" if you're making a general statement about your teeth hurting then it is "My teeth hurt" (no need for "do" ..."does" is wrong in either format) ...
Sounds like you're 'detatching" a bit... which IS a coping mechanism for traumatic events. It's normal for us to sometimes feel numb when something bad is happening. You have to realize that sometimes bad things just happen to good people. And that ha...
Whistle register is an awesome gift to have. If you don't already have the ability to sing to an E... you most likely won't have it "soon". It takes years and years of practice and vocal exercises to get to that point. I like to think of whistle re...
Provacative Woman seems to be my guy's new favorite... xox Sika
You can purchase condoms at almost ANY major retailer or drug store. Trojan and Durex are both good brands You can also usually get them for free at gynecologist and health clinics (planned parenthood etc.) Check your yellow pages or search yahoo wi...
keep it unique and keep it simple. Too much of halloween is commercialized. You should look for ideas in craft magazines for halloween decor that is classy and homemade. it will look better AND be special to you. xox Sika
maybe volunteer at your local animal shelter AND still keep up with your chores. If dishes are the only thing you do, then maybe you should help with laundry, dusting, vaccuming, mopping, cleaning bathroom/kitchen. And don't just make these a one time ...
A few exercises that may help- Go outside and find a wall somewhere, keep chucking a tennis ball at it. (sometimes it helps to yell as you're throwing - get angry and vent) Get some glass bottled sodas and when you drink them hold onto the bottle...
well. I guess what I meant was that people tend to "brush off" the other instance altogether BECAUSE it is less serious, which in my opinion is wrong. They are very different, but they are both considered forms of rape & sexual assault cause of the ...
As someone who was raped as a child over 200 times by her adoptive father, I'd have to say I'm in favor of the death penalty for rapists. (castration would be nice too.) I go to trial in 2 weeks. I'll be happy of course if he gets life. Many peop...
He wouldn't... It'd be like making ME president... I have no experience! Mccain fought for our freedoms and has always been dedicated to our country. He's an amazing man with amazing courage... he can step up to a lot more than Obama. xox Sika
Across the Universe xox Sika
ichibanarcky is right, there is a window of a few days but you have to do a method called Fertility Charting or Fertility awareness. It's a process where you take your basal body temp every morning and chart it and also check your cervical mucuos and c...
A missing or torn hymen is no indication of sex, because there are many other activities that can cause the hymen to tear. So yes, the only way a doctor can tell is if you have an STD or you're pregnant, other than that they only know by asking you....
watch out for the expiration date too. Make sure there's enough lubrication, too much friction can cause a break. Always have an emergency plan. If condoms are the only method you are relying on ... do some research and your homework on how you can ...
Who's to say that creativity or physicallity is any less worthy than intellect? You forget how many actors and actresses "lived" before they "hit it big". And you also forget... the celebrities and famous actors/actresses and artists we know and ...
I do! The neck is such a sensitive area... and a huge errogenous zone for most guys. xox Sika
There are a ton of different contraceptive pills and combinations out there. I take ortho cyclen (norgestimate/ethinylestradiol) I've been on it for about 4 years now. It's great! I was moody for about the first 3 months. My acne between cycles c...
Age difference isn't a big deal when you're both of age. You are still a minor, he is an adult. Here's where the big deal comes in. If you two have sex, it's illegal. It's called statutory rape. He should know better. I would question anyone with...
gunbound - free planeshift - free xox Sika